After the premiere of my boyfriend’s house, I received feedback from him that his father did not rate me very well, things can improve next time.
But this relationship became stalemate when I became pregnant. Everything was out of control, my husband and I plan to get married at the end of the year after preparing financially and mentally. When he told my father about my pregnancy, he only received a cold attitude and a flat refusal that no wedding took place. More than a month passed, I cried a lot.
Then Dad told him about the reasons he didn’t like me, for example he didn’t see me petting children, so he thought I didn’t love children, that would not raise children well, not responsible for the family, ready leave the children to go out and play. He helped me wash the dishes, he judged that he overestimated me, such things must be done by me, boys are not allowed to do such things.
Many more things happened and he told me that I did not have a good upbringing, did not know how to think. He despised me, despised my family’s upbringing; think that you are promoting a mediocre girl, choosing me is that you lower your self-worth. I was heartbroken, haunted by what his father said, waking up in the middle of the night thinking about it. What do I do when any choice is difficult?
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