Recently, the program “Chat with nursing mother” was broadcast with the appearance of actor Thien An. Here, the actress opens up about her pregnancy with singer Jack and being a single mother.
I work hard to earn money to have children
Receiving news of pregnancy when I was only 23 years old, I was nervous and didn’t dare announce it for 4 months, struggling to earn my own money to give birth and raise a child.
It was the energy, perseverance and motherly love that helped me overcome it all. Looking back now, I still shudder at that difficult time.
My learning process that I am pregnant can only be summed up in the two words “confused”. At that time, I was still a bright name, potential and gradually getting a position in art activities.
Many people advised me to have an abortion to maintain my career, but I did not accept it. For me, every birth is happiness.
I didn’t think about giving up or holding on, but thinking about what I had to do to keep my child alive. My case is sensitive so I understand, consciously and responsibly with this choice.
Most of the time during my pregnancy I did everything myself. I was afraid of being opposed by my family, a part of me wanted to wait for the baby to grow a little more to be sure, so I didn’t tell anyone.
I’m nervous about keeping my pregnancy a secret
I hid my pregnancy to protect my baby until the 4th month before I boldly told my family. My mother was very shocked and cried, but because she loved the baby, seeing that she was alone, she was afraid that I would suffer from depression during the pregnancy, so she ignored it all.
Without my mother, I would not have had the courage to sustain the pregnancy alone.
Before telling my family, I was completely alone facing new things during pregnancy, did not contact, did not dare to share with friends.
Not only was I stressed when I kept my pregnancy a secret, I was also more stressed when I didn’t know how to care for my baby, adding to the heavy burden of food and money.
I eat in moderation, giving up bad habits. I still work every month even though the salary is not too high at that time.
Instead of going out to eat, drink coffee and play like I used to, when I was pregnant, I saved the money to invest in other expenses like antenatal care, buying supplements.
Apart from modeling, I did a Sales internship to have another source of money. In the 4th month, when my belly showed, I couldn’t wear tight dresses, I didn’t accept modeling anymore.
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