Getting married and having children is something that everyone wants, but there are some unlucky couples who have tried hard but are unable to have children. Problems may come from the husband or wife, but with the incredible development of science, having children together is still within reach. But sometimes, the complexity doesn’t stop there…
Recently, a 34-year-old woman posted an article on a Reddit forum to share a story that left her “heartbroken” and unsure of how to act in the days that followed. This is such a sad story that no woman wants to be in the same situation. Many Reddit users were shocked and shocked by this story.
The woman revealed that she and her husband, 37, had been married for years and had worked hard to “have children”.
The couple decided to consider surrogacy and when the woman’s sister (who is 30 years old) agreed to go for the surrogacy, they were delighted.
However, the Reddit user’s excitement quickly subsided after a woman told how her husband suggested they do it the “traditional way”, meaning he would have sex with his sister instead of transferring as many fertilized embryos into the womb as possible. couples do.
She wrote: “My husband and I have struggled a lot with our infertility. We have tried several options and now we are looking for a surrogate. My sister agreed to help but my husband said he was considering time and money for IVF and started hinting that we do. … in the traditional way. I was so surprised that I was speechless he said that. We were indifferent as if it was just a trivial matter.
He explained that it was just a quick way for us to have children and save money to raise children later.”
The woman wrote that she was strongly against the idea and wanted to give up the surrogate altogether.
“I can’t even imagine my sister’s reaction to my husband’s suggestion. She even wants to have sex with my sister just because she wants to have a baby easily. For example, if I grudgingly agree despite being uncomfortable, I’ll always be obsessed with how the baby will be. it’s conceived later.”
It is worth mentioning that after his wife’s drastic reaction, the husband turned to criticize her for not believing her and blaming her for her infertility problems.
“Now he’s starting to rebuke me that I don’t trust him and that I was selfish for not giving him the father he wanted when he married me. He’s basically in love with me. Sorry for my infertility. I feel so hopeless and guilty that I feel so useless. Emotionally and mentally… I can’t describe how I feel right now.”
In the comments column, he explained that his sister still hadn’t heard the strange idea from her brother-in-law.
He explained: “I won’t tell my sister because I won’t let that happen. I didn’t even consider her offer and if she wants to continue criticizing me I can’t. I’ve suffered a lot over the years mentally, physically and emotionally and Now I have to be tougher.”
The woman’s post quickly went viral and has since received over 8,000 comments. Most people expressed support for the woman and enthusiastically “stoned” her “patriarchal” and “scary” husband, many even encouraging her to leave him.
“What you and your husband need to do now is get a divorce, not have kids,” one user wrote.
Some comments from netizens
Another added: “There is a way to parenthood. But not with this man! Not being able to get pregnant now turned out to be a blessing! Get out of this marriage!”
Another said: “Does he still blame you for not having children? This is not a man to marry… Let him go and have children of his own”.
Others point out that if he had sex with his wife’s sister and got her pregnant, it would legally make the baby his wife’s sister, not his wife’s child.