A series of shocked parents
Recently, the wife of artist Xuan Bac – Ms. Hong Nhung had a post that caused a stir on social networks. In particular, Nhung warned parents to control their children’s use of social networks. “Please check your children’s Facebook account. Oh what a shock. I gave them all, 2 cellphones are also broken. Many bad actors drag children into evil groups,” said Nam Tao’s wife nice.
Underneath the comments, Nhung also shared a series of 18+ photos in the group chat where his son was pulled over and two cell phones wrapped in tape. Prior to the incident, many parents expressed sympathy, sharing that their children were also added to chat groups with bad content while they were allowed to use their phones to study online. However, there is also a lot of opinion from the online community that Hong Nhung sharing his son’s sensitive story on Facebook, instead of “closing the door to tell each other”, is not subtle.
One of his comments garnered much sympathy from the online community.
“Gender curiosity is very natural, mother’s handling is a bit rushed”
Having 3 Children Full of Habits, Quite Boring, Hot Mom Tia Lieu – Director of the 1900, former lecturer at the National Economics University is very interested in parenting, especially sex education. When she found out about Hong Nhung’s controversial case, Ha Thanh’s sexy mother also shared her thoughts.
“I think you also need to have privacy, to have a right to know about gender, so the handling of mothers is a bit rushed. In this case, parents should talk to their children in order to protect their children, and their children as well, should be people who are armed with knowledge and initiative. Curiosity about sex is very natural, especially in teenagers.
I think when I was discovered, I was also very embarrassed, especially when my mother brought up stories on social networks, I could be made fun of in class, especially when I was famous.”
Hot mom Ha Thanh said, knowing that teenagers have access to +18 content must be faced by every family. The child is not convinced that the child is bad, what parents need to do is have a consensus on how to handle information.
“My philosophy is to make friends with children, so sometimes mother’s assertiveness is lacking. But I want my children to have problems in the future, they will find their mother to solve, or share, not hide. ma’am. So in case something like this happens, I choose to sit down and talk to my kids.” hot mother Tia Lieu share.
In fact, Ha Thanh’s mother also caught her children watching hot movies. He once shared: “My eldest daughter is about to reach puberty. Once in the evening, I happened to find her watching a hot movie. It was because her friends shared the link. At that time, I was shocked, kept muttering. : “Stop dying, what to do now do it now.” ! My son is only 10 years old.” I was very confused and didn’t know how to handle it, so I told my husband.
Hot mother Tia Lieu and children.
Fortunately, my husband was much calmer and reassured his wife. He analyzed himself, at that age, the children thought of him out of curiosity. In fact, when we are adults at the age of 10, 11, or 12, 13, many times we secretly watch hot films because of that curiosity. Then friends also share to see. That’s normal and don’t panic, use it as an opportunity to teach your child.
Come to think of it, I was lucky not to be in a rush to talk to my son right away. With my attitude at the time, it would definitely embarrass me and make things a sensitive topic.”
After calming down, the hot mom finds time to speak softly to her child: Where did you watch that movie? Who shared for you? How do you feel about that? In what environment do you think you will see these things and how should they be avoided?
The story also made Tia Lieu aware that it was time to educate her children to be more careful about sex.
As a regular follower of social media news, Phuong Linh – a teacher at Hai Phong also knew about the Hong Nhung controversy early on. The mother whose child is about to enter elementary school is quite surprised by the treatment of “Nam Tao’s wife”.
“About Ms. Nhung sharing a post related to accidentally discovering the “terrible truth” on her children’s social media accounts, she thought her aim was not bad (because she wanted to remind other parents .
First, when children find out that their mother posted this in public, they will feel a little embarrassed about their friends and acquaintances if they read the article. Second, unintentional posts such as “showing off the back of the shirt”; Instead of agreeing, readers will think “where is the role of parents when letting their children be free with their social media accounts at the age of elementary and junior high school students like that”Phuong Linh shared his views.
Phuong Linh said that if she came across the case, she would talk directly to her children the hard way, could confiscate the phone and only give out the phone when the child had a fixed online class schedule and supervised the process. I use the phone. At the same time, he would also post a warning to parents, but in a more subtle way, not to the point of disclosing information about their children as such.
Speaking of children reaching the age of being curious about sex and viewing sensitive images, Ms. Phuong Linh ta
Dan Ms. Thanh Nga (Hanoi) also said: “If it was me, I definitely wouldn’t post on social networks because it would affect my soul later. I will be ashamed of friends, teachers, go to school to be teased. As for the phone, I will definitely collect and slowly educate. your child about sex. Educate your child that he is not old enough to be exposed to such things.”
On the children’s side, NTH (8th grade boys, Hanoi) shared: “In 6th grade, I was also added to a group chat with 18+ content. At that time I knew the content was bad, the kids couldn’t see it, but out of curiosity I clicked on it anyway.
Then one night, my parents discovered that I was peeking during class. At first my mother was also angry, but then her parents were less hot, more gentle and asked why, if not according to her age, then explained the style and the next day bought her a book.
Today, I was surfing on social media and I also found out about the incident and remembered my story 2 years ago. If it was me, I would be very embarrassed, I would not dare to go to school tomorrow, for fear of being teased, and then embarrassed by the girls. With things like this, I think it’s better to explain it to the kids, rather than share it on social media, because we are so embarrassed.”
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