Pregnant Surrogacy is the right method for infertile couples because the wife’s health is not suitable for pregnancy. The principle of surrogacy is that the egg from the wife and sperm from the husband will be fertilized in vitro and transfer the embryo into the body of a pregnant woman. But in the story below, the husband wants to break the rule.
The story was posted by a 34-year-old woman on a Reddit forum. The woman revealed that she and her husband, 37, had been married for years and were having trouble on the “child path”. The couple decided to consider surrogacy and when the sister (30 years) agreed to go for the surrogacy, they were delighted.
The couple have been married for many years but have no children. (Illustration)
However, the wife’s excitement soon faded when the husband suggested they do it the “traditional way,” meaning he would “have sex” with his wife’s sister instead. Move the fertilized embryo into the womb as many couples do.
He wrote: “My husband and I had to work very hard because of infertility. We have tried several options and are currently looking into surrogacy. My sister agreed to help, but my husband said he had considered time and money for IVF and started hinting that we did it… the traditional way. I was so shocked that I was speechless, yet he was nonchalant as if it was a trivial matter. He explained that it was just a quick way for us to have children and save money to raise children later.”
The husband suggested “direct fertilization” to his wife’s sister and caused controversy. (Illustration)
The woman wrote that she was strongly against the idea and wanted to give up the surrogate altogether. “I can’t even imagine my sister’s reaction to my husband’s suggestion. He even wanted to have sex with my sister just because he wanted to have a baby easily. For example, if I grudgingly agree even though I feel uncomfortable, then I will always be obsessed with how the baby was conceived.” This wife confessed.
It is worth mentioning that after the drastic reaction of his wife, the husband again criticized her for not believing her and blaming her for infertility problems: “Now, he’s starting to scold me that I didn’t trust him and that I was selfish for not giving him the father he wanted when he married me. Basically, he blamed me for the infertility problem. I felt so hopeless and guilty because I felt so useless. Emotionally and mentally… I can’t describe how I feel right now.”
The woman’s post quickly went viral and has since received over 8,000 comments. Most people expressed support for the woman and enthusiastically “stoned” her “patriarchal” and “scary” husband, many even encouraging her to leave him.
Many people think that this wife should file for divorce. (Illustration)
Condition of surrogate mother in Vietnam
Surrogacy is the right method for infertile couples because the wife’s health is not suitable for pregnancy. In Vietnam, surrogacy is not sanctioned by law, except surrogacy for humanitarian purposes when the following conditions are met:
For people requesting surrogacy:
– There is a certification from a competent medical organization that the wife cannot conceive and give birth, even if assisted reproductive techniques are applied.
– Husband and wife do not have the same children.
– Receive medical, legal and psychological advice.
For persons requested for surrogacy:
– Become a relative or relative of the wife or husband of the person who asks for a surrogate mother.
– The person has given birth once and is only allowed to be a substitute once.
– The person is of legal age and certified by a competent medical organization on the possibility of a surrogate mother.
– The husband’s consent must be obtained if the person requesting the surrogate is already married.
– Receive medical, legal and psychological advice.
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