Come home from work and smell the fishy smell at home and at the end
My husband and I got married 3 years ago, but only the first year after marry is to live happily and peacefully. I really miss that time. Every day we go to work, come home to cook, clean, even take the weekend to go to the street to play. The family economy is very good, don’t worry. The house that we bought in installments, both husband and wife are sure they can pay it off within 7 or 8 years.
Both sides of the family also contributed a lot to help the lives of these two children stabilize soon. Even though both paternal and maternal sides were not very rich, the grandparents still gave as much love as possible. It really helped my wife and I mentally. Imagine that life from here will develop in a positive direction. But the incident happened so fast, I couldn’t adapt.
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Due to a serious mistake at work, my husband had to pay more than 100 million VND. Already owed a lot, now have to bear more than that. My husband was also laid off by the company. It was very difficult for him to find a new job in this industry because the personnel of several other companies already knew of his past. It’s just that my husband was a little inattentive, but a lot of things went wrong. He had to do some freelance, slightly unprofessional work to make money. My wife and I are in crisis.
I continued to work frantically, hoping to help my husband. But human strength is limited, there are times when I have to be stressed and tired. Sometimes, I would whine at my husband, just hoping he would understand, or even a hug would be enough. In addition, when it comes to money, my husband will express confidence. you talk like “It’s all my fault, it’s because I’m incompetent and useless. Now you can go and get someone else.”
Then, I also refrained from complaining, trying to suppress all the pressure inside. Every time I told him, my husband grumbled and made me very tired. When my husband worked as a freelancer, his income dropped drastically. Since then, he has lived aimlessly and has no intention of advancing. Every month he only gave me 6 million and thought that was enough. I told my husband that I was surprised to get more, but he ignored it, on the contrary, my husband also told me to save, not to spend extravagantly.
It’s true that my husband is gradually becoming more frugal, but in a negative and conservative way. TV he did not dare to turn on, the phone did not dare to charge many times. Even clothes that do not use a machine, he washes by hand at home. That’s not the husband I want to see. I want him to be stronger through surprises, and more resourceful and agile.
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The last drop of water has arrived on the overflowing day. That day I came home from work and saw my husband doing something that made me choke. Coming home from the company, through traffic jams, I just want a clean house. But as soon as I opened the door, I smelled a musty smell. My husband is cleaning the house. Usually when I clean the house, the floors always smell good, the house is cool.
Asked by her husband why it smelled so fishy, she innocently replied: “Then use yesterday’s water to clean it. The house is always clean, it’s okay to save water, I don’t use water anymore to clean the floor. Besides, it’s just been cleaned, so when I open the door to breathe, that’s all.”
Having said that, my husband continued to clean the house, he didn’t care about his wife’s tired mood when she came home from work. I am very embarrassed by this answer. Then I rushed to my bedroom, closed the door, and cried. Why is my husband in this mess, he is no longer the same man I have loved all along. I plan to discuss this with my husband’s parents and my birth parents. Both parties still do not know that my husband thinks so strange. But I was afraid that my husband would be proud and then scream again. Is there a time when we really have run out of love and can’t be together anymore?
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