Discussing with his wife about having a second child, she vehemently mentions the monthly salary that her husband brings home
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Dear Sunflower,
Our first child is 5 years old. I always wanted to have a second child to stabilize my family. But whenever it was mentioned that the next child would be born, his wife was annoyed and pouted.
Not only that, I observed that my wife often spoke nonsense and showed her displeasure with her husband. But when I asked him the reason, he was silent and didn’t say it.
Last night, I abused my wife gave birth to a second child. He pushed me away and angrily reminded me of the salary I brought each month: “A month, he gave his wife 4 million, still not enough to spend one child. If you give birth to a second child, do you eat bran?”.
I was surprised by what my wife said. It turned out to be the reason why my wife was always angry with her husband and determined not to have a second child. But every month I only get 6 million, giving my wife 4 million is too much, what more could she want?
I also want to change companies but am afraid of collisions and changes work environment. After all, I’ve been in this job for over 10 years now. My wife should sympathize and support me, not show that kind of attitude. Is there a way to get my wife to agree to have a second child? (Please remain anonymous)
Hello,
To stabilize family life, the economy plays a very important role. If you are not aware of this, but continue to accept the usual destiny, without the will to move forward, marriage will be difficult to be happy.
Just look at the work you do with a salary of 6 million, is it enough to spend and worry about the economy at home? Then start preparing for a changing environment and other suitable, higher-paying jobs. You are the one who has to get out of your comfort zone to have a breakthrough in life.
In addition, you must often vent and help your wife with housework and take care of children. When your wife feels secure in marriage, she will agree to have a second child.
Love.
Sunflower.
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