Recently, in the next part of the Chat with breastfeeding moms program, actor Thien An opened up about her pregnancy with singer Jack and her story of being a single mother.
I don’t want to be a burden to anyone
Before telling my family, I was completely alone facing new things during pregnancy, did not contact, did not dare to share with friends. Not only was I stressed when I kept secrets to myself, I was even more stressed when I didn’t know how to take care of my children, adding to the heavy burden of food and money.
I eat moderately, giving up bad habits. I still work every month even though the salary is not too high at that time. Instead of going out to eat, drink coffee and play like I used to, when I was pregnant, I saved the money to invest in other expenses like antenatal care, buying supplements.
Apart from modeling, I did a sales internship to have another source of money. In the 4th month, when my belly showed, I couldn’t wear tight dresses, I didn’t accept modeling anymore.
During my pregnancy, I didn’t want to be a burden to anyone, even in the last months of pregnancy, I still went to antenatal care alone.
I value myself
I mentally prepared by watching most of the chats with mothers with milk to hear the experiences of previous mothers because I was afraid to ask my mother.
And the peaceful birth of baby Sol (whose daughter was named Thien An) was a great gift in return for all the hardships I went through.
I thought, the child is my child, there is nothing to sacrifice. I am alone, when I have made this decision, I have to find a way to make money to sustain my life.
To this day, I also don’t understand why in the process I was able to get over it. I also respect myself.
As soon as I gave birth, I learned to walk, I could do whatever I could. I also took the initiative to take care of the children. I’m like the breadwinner in the family, I can’t rely on anyone. After giving birth for 2 months, I returned to work to earn money to support the child.
During pregnancy, I was very stressed, closed all social networking sites.
So when I got back to work, I faced a lot of difficulties. I lost all connection, unable to contact anyone. I have to do everything to let everyone know that I’m back. Apart from performing, I also sell clothes online to earn money to live.
My son doesn’t deserve this
Even though I had to endure many hardships and pressures, I never regretted the past. I don’t have time to think “what if” anymore.
I had to find a way to solve the problem, not look back in time. I had to quickly take care of food and money because I felt very sorry for my children. My son doesn’t deserve this.
Many times I think, or because it’s my child, that’s why it’s like this. But then I ignored that thought to try to take care of my children completely.
Under people, public opinion gossiped and criticized me a lot, leaving me depressed and bored. But no matter what they say, they won’t feed me. When I fell, my mother and children had no support.
Initially, I was stressed, I went online every day to read every comment. But then I didn’t care anymore to focus on raising children.
By the way, I want to thank my mother, who endured many hardships and scandals but never gave up, but always protected me and my daughter.
I have always had great love for my mother. As for my daughter, when she grows up, she will know how hard I worked. I want my children to be better, to love me more, to be a great spiritual support for me.
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