Pregnant and giving birth is a happy thing because it is a crystallization of love, but for couples who are temporarily separated due to working away from home, joy goes hand in hand with anxiety and sadness. Fearing that their husbands will worry about the pregnancy and stay home alone, many newly pregnant wives temporarily hide the matter so that their husbands can work comfortably. But this can lead to unnecessary misunderstandings as in the case of Mr. Li Cuong (who lives in China).
Sharing on social networks, Li Cuong said that he and his wife have known each other since university. At that time, he felt to be the happiest man in the world, because his wife was very beautiful and had many followers. Even so, she is still one heart with him.
After years of dating, the two also got married. After the wedding, the young couple rented a house to live in. Feeling bad to continue like this forever, Ly Cuong’s wife discussed with her husband trying to earn money and save up to buy a house.
Li Cuong and his wife have known each other since college. (Illustration)
However, due to tight economic conditions, in order to earn more money to buy a house, Li Cuong had to work late and often went on long-term business trips. During a business trip, Li Cuong and his wife called each other every day, because his wife was so beautiful that he was afraid that she would be watched by other men.
The three-month business trip finally ended, Li Cuong happily returned home and he was cooked for the big table by his wife. Due to being away from his wife for a long time, that night Li Cuong wanted to have sex with his wife, but his wife firmly refused and said that she was pregnant.
Hearing his wife say that, Ly Cuong couldn’t help but be surprised, because he used to go on a business trip away from home, how could his wife be pregnant. Therefore, Li Cuong insisted that his wife was secretly cheating on him behind his back, and the child in his stomach was not his. Thinking of this, Ly Cuong couldn’t contain the anger in his body, but scolded and beat his wife. Suspicious of her husband, the wife was very sad, cried, and left the house.
After a business trip, Li Cuong was shocked to hear that his wife was pregnant. Illustration
After his wife left, Li Cuong half hesitated because he never thought that his wife would one day betray him. Recalling that he had installed a camera in the house to prevent theft beforehand, he immediately opened the camera to confirm the truth.
He saw his wife hiding a piece of paper under the bed, so he quickly took it out to see what it was. Turns out, it was a pregnancy notification, where it said his wife was more than 2 months pregnant, meaning that his wife had been pregnant for a long time but didn’t tell him.
Bringing hesitancy to ask his wife, Li Cuong’s wife said that because she didn’t want to put more pressure on him, she didn’t tell him earlier, because the two didn’t want to have children at this time, so they proposed anyway. contraception when they are young, sex, so that pregnancy is not wanted. However, she didn’t want to abort the pregnancy, so she just needed to hide the matter and tell her husband later so she could work safely, but unexpectedly, she was suspected and beaten by her husband, leaving her very disappointed and wanting a divorce.
Li Cuong was very confused whether the child was his own or not. Illustration
As for Li Cuong, he was still confused as to whether the child in his wife’s womb was his own, so he wanted to do a DNA test. Currently, his story is causing public controversy with many mixed opinions, criticizing Li Cuong because he doubted and beat his wife, who thought that the wife had something to hide, so he had to hide it for so long.
Why use contraception but still get pregnant?
Actually, there are many ways to prevent pregnancy such as using condoms, using oral contraceptives, external ejaculation, installing contraceptives, etc., but no method is absolute. Like:
– Calculate safe days according to menstrual cycle: This method has a high risk of getting pregnant because not all women have regular menstrual cycles. Moreover, the cycle can be changed by many factors such as environment, eating, stress, etc.
– External ejaculation: At the beginning of “love”, the mucus secreted from the male genitals already contains some sperm. Therefore, even with external ejaculation, this method of contraception is not safe enough, moreover sometimes men are overly excited or unable to control themselves without “resigning” in time.
Using emergency contraception: This method has a relatively low effectiveness in preventing pregnancy, only about 70% and the effect will also decrease if used many times.
– Daily oral contraceptive pill: If the pills are not taken at the right time or regularly, a woman can still get pregnant. Furthermore, this drug will be less effective in women who are taking certain types of antibiotics, antifungals, antiepileptics, etc.
– Condom: If you use this method of contraception and still get pregnant, you may have used the wrong condom, used the condom too late or the condom was torn, punctured, expired, or…
In addition, other methods such as patch contraceptives, oral contraceptive injections, insertion of IUDs, contraceptive implants, and others, the rate of unwanted pregnancy is still around 0.1-1%.
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