“The worst child is being teased by friends!”
On March 13, Hong Nhung (Xuan Bac’s wife) shared a post warning parents about children using social networks. Where, on Facebook, his son appeared 18+ pictures in a group chat.
This action has received intense reflection at MXH. Most believe that his actions inadvertently hurt his son when he published a sensitive text message from his son.
In addition, the act of breaking into the phone also reaps various opinions, which can leave a bad psychological impact on the child’s heart. “Instead of breaking the cell phone like that, he should be gentler in teaching his children, otherwise I will be afraid of the parents” – said a netizen.
Prior to the controversy above, we had contacted parents and teachers to have a more multi-dimensional view of this parenting story.
“When parents teach, they teach at home. Now only children are easily teased by you”
What parents worry the most is that NS Xuan Bac’s son might be teased after this story. Images that have been posted on social media are difficult to remove, which can lead to children being made fun of in front of friends and at school.
Bui Thi Hau (teacher of a high school in Hanoi) expressed his rather strong objections to Xuan Bac’s wife’s approach: “Of course I don’t agree with your mother’s reaction to this. I’m a teacher so I think I can somewhat understand children’s psychology now. Although studying sensitive images is a pretty normal feeling for kids their age, but not kids want stories. them to talk about.
I thought it would be fine if people used to post articles like that. But Uncle Xuan Bac’s family is famous, so you will be noticed and talked about behind your back a lot. In this case, I’m just worried that the children will suffer a lot.”
Miss Hau said that Xuan Bac’s wife’s punishment could leave a psychological impression on the hearts of her children
Agreeing with Ms. Hau, Ms. Nguyen Ha (49 years, Nghe An province) said: “From a mother’s point of view, I see this story as the fault of both parties. However, the blame is more on Xuan Bac’s wife. Because she posted the child’s story on social networks, took screenshots. The picture is not good. , leading to the case of a similar sentence , makes people think badly of you.”
Strolling through social networking sites, many accounts identify this as a sensitive story. At the same time, he stated that the publicity of Xuan Bac’s wife’s online family affairs would easily affect children in the growth stage.
Ngoc Tuyen (Hanoi) account says: “The delicate story of a teenager that the family publish publicly all over the internet, but at such a sensitive age, hearing people talk about it is even more stressful. Now many families let their children use cell phones from an early age, so we Kids are also developing earlier than before. . .
Xuan Bac artist with his wife
The BHX account also conveys the same thing, namely my personal experience: “I myself used to be ashamed of my mother. Not because I was watching sex movies because I didn’t have a cell phone to watch at the time. It’s just that in the crowd, my mother scolded me and beat me. At that time, I was really embarrassed, I just wanted to hide in a corner without seeing anyone.
Boys like this don’t even dare to go to school to see her, what a shame! Parents, if you teach, please teach at home, don’t expose to the world. It affects the soul of the child.”
What should families do to help their children use their phones safely?
When students study online at home, parents find it difficult to control what their children do with electronic devices. So, how to make children use their cell phones safely is also a concern of many families nowadays.
Sharing this view, Bui Thi Hau (49 years old) insists that it is impossible to little by little control her children’s actions on social networking sites. “A lot of people say they’re going to ban their kids from using their phones or control this and that, but I don’t agree with this view. People like kids today are very tech-savvy. The more you resist, the more you’ll act. quietly behind you.
In my opinion, even with my children at home, if they like to use the phone, I will not forbid this. It’s just that you have to use it sparingly so as not to affect your health.
I think the most sensible way for my kids not to watch junk movies is to talk to them and teach them what to watch or not to watch. Apart from that, I also regularly talk to my children about sex education issues. That way, if you’re curious about this and that, you’ll know which source is more appropriate.”
Nguyen Ha (49 years, Nghe An province) also agrees with the view that parents cannot control all their children’s actions on social networks. According to him, the best way to do this is to learn to befriend your child, so he can easily share what he’s been going through.
“From my point of view of educating my children, it is also impossible to prevent them from being exposed to information on social networks, because they will have reasons to use the phone such as: Looking for study materials, entertainment, watching movies,…
Therefore, everyone needs to have words, talk and vent to their children often, and consider them as close friends. Over time, children will be more open to themselves, can boldly share secrets, it is difficult to say. That way, you can easily find out what your child is dealing with, or befriending, interacting with bad people or not to immediately prevent and advise.”
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