Between the ages of 5 and 10, children are often very vulnerable and influenced by what adults say. When parents are unfettered, they will scold them, even if they want to be good to their children, they will inadvertently cause children to be affected a lot.
Recently, the case of an elementary school girl, because her parents were upset, wrote a letter that made many online communities feel both sweet and sad. Thus, the article was posted by his friend’s brother on the social network.
The text of the girl’s letter:
“My parents never understood me. When I sulked, my father also cursed. When I didn’t do what she wanted, my mother told me and my father scolded me. My friend said that his parents loved him very much. Now I have a father and a mother. It was two teddy bears. I can’t achieve my dream. Mom and Dad, your words hurt me a lot. I cried a lot.”
According to the brother’s part, this is a letter when the sister is not accepted by her parents to go out with her friends. Her daughter was too “wretched” so she accepted… 2 teddy bears as adoptive parents. Another outstanding detail is the image of the heart on the letter. In his best friend’s family photo, he has a whole heart, but a broken heart is reflected in his family.
As soon as it was shared, the girl’s letter quickly caught the attention of the online community. Many people think that this is a common reaction in elementary school children. Children often compare their family to friends, and parents need only a little scolding and they will “cheat”.
In addition, some netizens commented that if parents did not treat their children indifferently and nonchalantly, the above letter would not appear.
Some important comments:
“Parents don’t use bad words, growing up will have a negative impact on personality”;
“I think the story might be just a small one, but no big deal, my son is like that too”;
“Back then, I was like that too, thinking that my parents didn’t understand and didn’t love me. When I grew up, I understood my parents’ difficulties”;
“Educating children should not use words that scold or compare this and that, this will make children more heartbroken and easily lead to bad things”;
“The 1st grader who wrote a diary to punish his family filled his grandparents’ and parents’ rooms. Time and time again, when he opened the door, he was surprised to see the thin figure”;
“It’s also possible that this method of parenting father and mother inadvertently injures female students.”