I see hot pictures, mom bangs her phone and makes a fuss on Facebook

Recently, the story of a famous mother posted on her personal page about her child being lured by a bad object to see sensitive images causing a stir in public opinion. This mother was not only surprised but also extremely frustrated when she discovered the incident. Out of anger, the mother smashed her son’s phone and shared the story online to warn other parents.

The incident is attracting much attention from the online community, especially parents with children in puberty. Many online readers believe that the mother could not keep her composure, so she smashed her child’s phone and shared the story on Facebook, causing her child to be teased. Done also has an opinion that her approach is just to warn parents, so they should be more attentive to online learning, using their children’s phones…

Education expert, Director of Thanh Cong Academy – Dr. Vu Viet Anh

Education expert, Director of Thanh Cong Academy – Dr. Vu Viet Anh shared with VietNamNet about the above situation.

Dr. Vu Viet Anh said that children’s curiosity to learn about sensitive images when they come of age is a very common instinct. The main problem is that parents, as drivers, should pay attention and care to their children, and orient their children’s sex education.

Parents need teach children what to do and what not to do. Parents also need to protect their children against bad news to avoid their children being harmed.

Regarding the mother’s reaction in the above story, Dr. Vu Viet Anh said that it was a somewhat regrettable action. Instead of breaking the child’s phone, parents can sit back, talk with their child, find out the source of the problem to have a better solution. Although temporary emotions are difficult to control, it also shows that parents need to equip more knowledge and skills to manage emotions in educating children.

The fact that the mother accidentally posted her child’s story has caused great damage to the child’s psyche. People around, especially friends of the same age, will have a different view, seriously affecting children’s psyche. In many cases, the mother not only fails to protect her child, but also makes the child feel ashamed, inferior, and afraid.

Improper education causes great danger

Dr. Vu Viet Anh believes that, at primary school age, parents need to start paying attention to sex education for their children. Children need to know the names of the body parts and know the gender and function of the parts.

In many countries, 3-year-olds have been taught about body parts, “private areas” that others should not touch, including parents. Early education helps children to identify what is right, avoiding curiosity and going down the wrong path.

In the face of the situation of children with early puberty like in our country, sex education is extremely necessary. Improper education poses great danger, especially abortion among women.

Parents need to show their children that letting others see their body is abuse. At the same time, remind your children not to spread sensitive images and movies because it is a violation of the law.

From the above mother’s case, according to expert Vu Viet Anh, when detecting children watching movies or sensitive images, parents need to calm down. Parents are the teachers who guide and show their children the way, so showing them the “right way” is essential.

Parents, because they can’t control their behavior, have caused unnecessary damage and seriously affected their children’s psyche. The fact that parents smash their phones, share their children’s messages online is an act of “invasion of privacy”.

“Honesty, admitting mistakes, correcting and changing” is what Dr. Vu Viet Anh believes that not only children but parents also need to do to improve themselves. The mother in this situation may have reacted impatiently, which is understandable. However, mothers can completely apologize to their children, admit their mistakes, and talk with their children to help them point out their own right actions and avoid making mistakes again.

In addition, parents should not scold or say insulting words when their children have trotted to see those sensitive images.

Parents need to understand that their child has grown, has reached the age of curiosity. But being curious in the right way, without causing harm is what parents need to orient their children.

“It is better to draw a road for the deer to run than to let the deer run around,” emphasized Dr. Vu Viet Anh.

Tu Linh