“I warn, not condemn anyone”

Artist Xuan Bac’s wife has spoken out about warning parents of young children when using social networks that it is difficult to control their children…

Artist Xuan Bac and his children often attract the attention of the online community when appearing together, because of the quickness and humor of this family. Xuan Bac’s family is also considered a model family when it regularly shares teaching methods on social networks.

But recently, the wife of artist Xuan Bac has warned parents to control their children’s use of social networks, causing fierce controversy. So what do insiders say?

Share with ReporterMs. Hong Nhung – artist wife Xuan Bac said: “I have received many opinions about my sharing of my son’s story being manipulated by some groups. Me and my son jointly manage this page, I I’ve exited the page many times but have been added (added-PV) The key point is that Bi never viewed or read these pages but because her mother co-manages them, she knows. These people keep talking and whispering. , chat with my child’s account, so I spoke up. I warn, not condemn anyone, I ask parents to check their children’s phones to see what they are doing, what to see.

Many social networking sites have misrepresented my meaning, they do not understand the essence of the story, so it makes it even more confusing. They raise the point that I control my children is not, if I do not manage Facebook with my children, how do I know this? I know, after my sharing, many parents are startled to check how their children are using social networks? Those who have children my age will understand and agree, but if they are not in that situation, they may get it wrong.”

Ask Hong Nhung: When you read the information that she is not psychological with her children, there are people who want to “rescue” Bi Fat, how do you feel? The artist’s wife Xuan Bac said: “I find it funny, I should love my child, I don’t need anyone’s pity. If you hate Bi, what would you love if you stoned Bi’s mother? They… love Bi so much! Understanding sex is not bad, but how to learn it is important. At my child’s age, it is not wrong to learn about sex, but it is important to learn how. No one loves children as much as mom, don’t be hurt. Borrow and cry like that.

Every house has problems, you just hide it, don’t dare to face the truth. I want my children to have a clean growing up environment, so that even their parents can understand and care for their children, so that society can be safe for them. If they tell me I’m a hugger, then ignore them, I think, I have to have a responsibility to say this because after my sharing, many parents talked to me, their children were seduced and deviant in terms of gender. without knowing who to talk to.

Some people are so stuck that they have to send their children to study abroad, smashing phones, letting Ipad into the country … every house has it. Parents have to be terrible for their children to be good.”

Ms. Hong Nhung added: “My Facebook is Reported (reported – PV) and locked, so I can’t share more, but I’m not afraid of anything. My Facebook Report children can imagine something like this. I don’t violate my child’s privacy because mother and daughter both manage their child’s Facebook, I see danger lurking around. Talking to me, I agreed not to use social media because I knew that unorthodox information would not be good for me.

Finding out about gender or other issues has many reliable sources, not just these closed groups. I told my children: Parents are not always there to accompany them, so you should stay away from those harmful sites. I spend time using social networks, exercising, singing… Social networks are very dangerous, should not be used, I immediately agreed. Mothers receive many helpless shares of parents when their children are lost because social networks cannot save them. Mom doesn’t want that. I don’t want any mother to suffer because of that helplessness!

I’m a straightforward person, always going to the end of things, so I don’t hide anything. Without this, there would be no basis to tell them to understand the negative side of social networks, they are still young but aware enough to know right and wrong. Even adults, if they don’t stumble, it’s hard to wake up, which is their children.

Mr. Xuan Bac completely understands his wife and children, understands Bi’s personality. Society is in turmoil, but Bi is still normal, I don’t read or watch the news, after eating, I play the piano and go to bed, carefree like every other day. I have to protect my innocent Bi like that. Compared to you, Bi is still very naive.”

“My family’s story is simple: Mother and child manage the site together, if mom sees danger, she warns, but it’s not a big deal. There are pages that say I’m just warning parents but not Those who condemn me are mainly “young and old”, sometimes those who condemn me last night sneak into my child’s Facebook to see what I’m doing and see. at the mother”, that is, the mother’s cover is not correct, loving the child blindly is counterproductive to the child…” – Ms. Hong Nhung frankly.