The day I got married, we both had a hard life. Her husband’s family is also not well off, her husband’s parents are even more difficult. So the couple had to make money, working hard to save every penny. My husband is also into business, so I have no complaints. The family is not rich, but as long as husband and wife love each other, it’s hard to be easy.
Apart from working time at the company, at night, I also work hard to post online sales to get orders. Husband and wife unanimously also raised some money after more than 3 years of living together. Right now, I’m telling my husband’s parents to let us go out to live separately to ease our commute to work. After all, husband’s homework is too far, affecting our health and work. Every time we come home from work, we are tired of traffic jams, it is no longer healthy to take care of anything. My husband’s parents agreed to let us buy an apartment of almost 60 square meters. Even though the money is only half, we have to pay in installments, borrow again from the bank.
Husband and wife unanimously also raised some money after more than 3 years of living together. (Illustration)
In-laws love their children, so they also gave us some money from their savings. Fortunately, there were brothers who helped us and lent us money. That day, my sister-in-law had collected gold and sold it to us to borrow money. He says keep it till you have it, you can pay for it.
I am very happy, fortunately there is a family member who helps me, so I can help a little. Paying the bank too much will be very difficult, every month you have to bend. I have secretly thanked my brother-in-law for many years, so over the years, I have lived very well with my brothers and sisters. As long as you have the words, no matter how difficult it is, I will try to help. Moreover, I often buy nutritious food for my grandchildren, buy gifts for them.
3 years have passed, we can only pay off the bank debt, the debt you still have still makes us sick and anxious. Remembering his words “anytime you can send it to me, you can” so it’s kind of reassuring.
But suddenly, he called me and said he needed money. I asked him what he needed in a hurry as the number of hundreds of millions couldn’t be said to be taken care of. My wife and I also have a lot of expenses every month, so we can’t accumulate much, even if we try, we can only take care of half of it.
He said that we also plan to invest in land, so the sooner we take care of it, the better. I discussed with my husband to borrow money from the bank to pay him half of the money up front, the other half, begging for a moment to borrow friends and relatives.
That day at the husband’s house, his two in-laws were sitting there, we sent you borrowed money. He looked at the money and then smiled and said: “In the past, brothers and sisters sold gold to lend to children. At that time, it was the 10 gold trees that he had accumulated over the years. Now, if you pay, you can also buy gold and return those 10 trees to me. You need gold, not cash. On that day, the children said they needed money, so I brought gold to sell, but actually lent them gold.”
What you said surprised me. Why can you claim gold when the gold price is so high? Aren’t you making things difficult for us?
I didn’t know that I had a piece of land that was given to me by my parents long ago. Maybe because my husband told his brothers and in-laws that they knew. (Illustration)
One day, I read a message she sent to her husband that made me feel nauseous. “My husband asked you to pay for gold even though I didn’t really want to. Sympathy, gold rose, I urged him again, so he had to. I have also lent it to you for many years, and I have done so with all my heart. I’m trying to take care of you. I heard that my wife’s family owned the property, the land her father-in-law had given her, told her to sell it so she could take care of it and then pay off the debt. What’s wrong with me, why let my family bear the burden. Sell it and count it later, have the money to take care of it now, so when does the price go up?”
Turns out, you’ve counted them all. I didn’t know that I had a piece of land that was given to me by my parents long ago. Maybe because my husband told his brothers and in-laws that they knew.
What infuriated me was that my husband also agreed with his brother-in-law’s suggestion, wanting to force me to sell the land for money. What he told him made me bitter: “You are right, don’t sell it now, sell it later, if the parents get sick again, the money will be spent on treating their parents’ illness. Eat, then no one will be able to talk.”
But he never said anything to me before. If you want to discuss it with me, why bother? The wife’s money also belongs to her husband, I never calculated the division. I kept the land only because I was afraid I couldn’t sell it, and then regretted it. He was also worried about me bringing money for my parents’ medical treatment. I didn’t expect the man I trusted to have such a selfish and shameless mind.
That night, I thought a lot. Sad because husbands and sisters are few, sad because husbands are many. Unexpectedly years of marriage still suspicious of each other. To be honest, I thought about selling my house, paying off my debt, getting a divorce, and bringing my children back to my hometown to live with my grandparents. But then my child will be miserable?
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