The wife of Meritorious Artist Xuan Bac: ‘I don’t use my children to ask for likes’

Artist North Spring and their children, Minh Bum (real name Khanh Minh) and Bi fat (real name Vo Nguyen) each time they appear together, they “storm” social networks because of their intelligence and humour. Xuan Bac’s family is also considered a model family when it regularly shares teaching methods on social networks.

But recently, artist Xuan Bac’s wife, Hong Nhung, was reacted when she warned parents to control their children’s use of social networks.

Specifically, Ms. Hong Nhung wrote: “Please check your children’s Facebook accounts. Oh something unexpected. I let them out (exit the -PV accounts), 2 phones are also broken. A lot of them. bad elements drag children into bad groups”.

According to Hong Nhung, Fat Bi was lured into a group of messages containing unhealthy content. This made her extremely worried, worried that her son, who was only in 7th grade, would be adversely affected. Therefore, she hastened to warn parents to regularly check their children’s phones and social media accounts to avoid possible dangerous situations…

However, when this article was published, it was met with mixed opinions. There are opinions expressing dissatisfaction, opposing the way of artist Xuan Bac’s wife because they think it affects the spirit and psychology of children.

PV Dan Tri Contacting Ms. Hong Nhung, the artist’s wife Xuan Bac shared: “My son and I both manage the social page. When I found out that my son was being manipulated by some groups, I added to the chat groups with no content. age appropriate, I was very nervous.

These people keep talking and chatting with my account. Although Bi Fat has not read or seen these sensitive images, but with the responsibility of a mother, I have to act. I talk to my kids about the potential dangers of using social media. And Fat Bi agreed to let her mother handle her personal page as well as control phone use.

Thinking that my sharing will receive sympathy, as well as help parents with young children like me know to care and pay attention to their children, so I wrote a few lines on my personal page.

I warn, not condemn anyone. I ask parents to check their children’s phones to see what they are doing, watching.

When I received some harsh reactions from some people, mostly young people, I was very surprised. Some people misrepresented my ideas, even intentionally misinterpreting the matter. If I don’t pay close attention, I don’t pay attention to my child’s puberty, how can I know what content he has received from social networks?

I wonder, are parents of children of my age worried and checking their phones and checking how their children use social networks?

I was also very touched when parents sent me a private message to share in raising and taking care of their children. Some people have expressed concern and helplessness when their children’s development is deviated from the consequences of social networks. In some cases, when it was discovered, it was too late…”.

Before the idea that “bringing my children’s stories online to teach, so that others can learn from their experiences” would embarrass them, affect their psychology, and be discriminated against by friends, Ms. Hong Nhung affirmed:

“I don’t violate my child’s privacy because we both manage his Facebook page. After discovering the danger on social networks, I talked to him and he agreed not to use social networks.

I told Fat Bi: “Parents don’t always accompany them in time, so you should stay away from those harmful sites. You spend time using social networks, exercising, singing… Social media is very dangerous, should not be used when not mature enough. I receive many helpless comments from parents when their children are lost because social media can’t be saved. I don’t want that. I want any mother to suffer because of that helplessness.”

Bi fat is very naive but also very smart. When you frankly discussed, I agreed. I still eat, play, play the piano, not psychologically affected at all. I understand that you always want the best for me. Like my words, my words describe my mother. Even though a mother is not perfect, she is still the one who loves and cares for her children the most.”

The artist’s wife Xuan Bac suspects that the comments “big hammer”, condemning her are sometimes individuals who often sneak… look at their children’s phones and personal pages?!

Sharing more about the comments saying “I love Fat Bi”, “I want to rescue Fat Bi”, Ms. Hong Nhung frankly: “I find it funny, I should love my child, I don’t need anyone’s pity. If you stoned Bi’s mother, what would you love?

At my child’s age, it’s okay to learn about sex, but it’s important to learn how. No one loves you like a mother, don’t be so sorry.

Every home has problems, but some people want to hide it, and don’t dare to face the truth. I want my children to have a clean growing up environment, then I hope other parents understand and care for their children together, then society will be safe for them.

Many parents have talked to me, their children are seduced and deviated about gender without knowing who to talk to. Some people are so stuck that they have to send their children to study abroad. It’s not uncommon to smash your phone or let your Ipad into the country. I think, as a parent, when you’re soft, you have to be fierce and tough when you need to, so your child can be good.”

According to Dan Tri