Artist’s wife Xuan Bac: “I’m 5, 10 times worse than other people when it comes to raising children”

Reporter: Regarding the controversial status line for the past 2 days, what do you want to say about the content you have posted?

Ms. Nguyen Hong Nhung: I have to say frankly that baby Bi doesn’t access the dark web the way people understand. I and Bi are the ones who control his personal Facebook page. For a long time, I don’t usually come in because of my busy work, but recently, when I went in to take a closer look, I was quite shocked because there were many messages from closed groups, enticing my children to visit unhealthy pages. I panicked and told Bi that: “You can’t go on social networks anymore, I will confiscate the phone and not let you access it because I think it’s too dangerous.” My baby Bi is still very innocent, she doesn’t access bad websites, it’s just that I am a mother who feels too scared so I post a status to warn other parents.

* Despite the good intentions, her post is quoted by many social networking sites and the matter is being pushed in the direction that she is a mother who is insensitive and lacks sophistication in teaching her children…

– For a long time, my outspokenness, frankness and quickness in character made me receive many false accusations about myself. Every time like that, I feel more and more worried about social networks because I am an adult, I am resistant enough to negative information from the outside. As for children, they are too young to understand what is going on.

I told Bi the truth that I was being “stoned” by the online community when I posted such content, and people were misunderstanding me when I saw “dirty” content. She told me she didn’t watch it, so there was nothing to be embarrassed about. I love him very much because from my well-intentioned post, he was misunderstood, and most likely psychologically affected.

At the current child’s age, it’s normal to learn about gender and have curiosity about adults, and I don’t forbid it. But, before he takes the initiative, I don’t want private groups on Facebook to adversely affect his natural development. Not to mention, I have many other more orthodox sources to learn, no need for virtual nicks, I don’t know who, but I send links as if enticing my children to access.

Bi Beo is quite close to her parents. Bi inherits a sense of humor from her father and often has many cute and noticeable statements.

* About the detail of her “two broken phones” makes others wonder that if I didn’t do it wrong, if I didn’t access it, would my act of breaking the phone make them stressed and scared?

– I was shocked when I accessed the links. I think if I don’t extinguish it in time when things have just started happening, if Bi is “crammed” with inappropriate images in his mind, who is responsible but not his father? your mother – is it us? I have to protect my child in the strongest way.

I think if I advise, confided in the child that it is very bad, he should not watch. I am afraid that it is not thorough, because even my words with good intentions are misinterpreted and killed, there is no guarantee that my children are safe from the bad effects of social networks, so I should stop completely. is a safe solution.

Around me, many friends my age say they are powerless to control the content their children are viewing online. So sometimes, I think making the problem 4 or 5 times more serious to warn people and shape their children’s awareness is also the right thing to do. I share with parents through a short status line is also a way for me to protect my children, because if other families are also closer with their children, my grandchildren will have a healthier environment to grow up. develop.

Bi Beo and her father participated in the program Who Wants to Be a Millionaire. The boy showed a sense of humor and an interest in historical content.

* Although many parents want to control the content their children access online, this is not easy because in addition to online learning, the time to observe their children also causes parents to face a lot of pressure…

Yes, it is very difficult to control all the content that children are receiving from social networks every day. If I hadn’t checked it out by accident, I wouldn’t have known how much my child was being seduced by many secret groups. I believe after the content that I post, many parents have checked or wished to be tested to know how their children are using social networks.

Baby Bi now agrees with me that she doesn’t use social media and is finding joy in practicing the piano. For the past two days, I have taken the piano out to play and am very happy even though everyone is screaming to protect Bi. I found her state of mind to be quite reassuring.

I know that I have an outspoken and receptive personality, so sometimes I am not as tactful and gentle as other mothers. I’m 5, 10 times more fierce than everyone else when it comes to raising children, but now, I still find that strictness necessary. I was also a child who grew up in a strict upbringing of the family, there were times when I had conflicting opinions, but in the end, I knew that my loving parents taught me such lessons.

People out there are calling me a bad mother, only knowing how to bring family stories on social networks, I just want to ask them: “What mother wants her child to be infected with bad content?”, and “Is there a mother who doesn’t love her child?” Why am I protecting Bi and just want to remind parents to be more careful when letting their children use social networks and be criticized and killed by public opinion? Everyone slow down and think.

*Thank you for sharing.

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According to www.phunuonline.com.vn