As a girl, my parents gave it to me, now I earnestly seek and reward those who know information
Because she’s a girl, she was given to her by her parents
With a gentle and kind face, a soft voice, and a smile, that’s everyone’s impression when listening to Ms. Hoan (born in 1972, currently living in District 5, Ho Chi Minh City) talk about her life story. mine.
Hoan said, she still thinks that she is the biological child in the family of her adoptive parents because she is loved by her parents and siblings like her own blood. Until she was 8-9 years old, Ms. Hoan faintly heard her friends say that she was an adopted child: “You’re an adopted child that was picked up by your parents in the trash“.
Hoan was very sad, but did not dare to tell her adoptive mother, for fear that she would upset her. She kept her feelings in her heart until the age of 19. When Hoan got married, an aunt told her to be careful about her background.
Hoan, who was abandoned by her parents 50 years ago.
It is said that “only after giving birth will you know your parents’ hearts”, after getting married and giving birth, you will feel sympathy for your biological parents. After years of being busy with children and houses, about 13 years ago, when she had free time, Hoan began to learn about her biological parents.
“Ms. Sau is my biological mother’s midwife at Tu Du Hospital and plays with Ms. Hai, and Ms. Hai is my adoptive mother’s friend. All information Ms. Sau to tell Ms. Hai and her mother.
Later, through Ms. Hai’s son, I learned that the day my biological mother entered the hospital to give birth to me, she told Ms. Sau that: “I have given birth to several daughters. My situation is also very difficult. . If the child in the womb is a boy, I will try to raise it.” Unexpectedly, my mother who gave birth to me would continue to be a girl, so she wanted to give me to a family that could afford to be raised.
I am not angry with my mother for letting me know that her situation is difficult, and that she just wants the best for me. For more than 13 years, I have spent a lot of effort searching but there is no news about my parents.” Ms. Hoan said.
Pictures of Ms. Hoan in her childhood.
“If you see any resemblance, please contact me”
The woman with a very kind smile added that her adoptive mother had heard that one of her biological parents was Vietnamese, and one was from Beijing (China) or from the North (Northern region). she doesn’t know either.
She only heard vague information like that. Previously, there was a time when Ms. Hoan’s adoptive parents had difficulties, so they had to send her to another family to help. Later, when the economy was temporarily stable, they would pick her up again, not abandoning her.
Hoan is grateful to her parents for taking care of her, loving and taking care of her like other brothers. Previously, when she wanted to find her biological parents, Hoan did not dare to tell her adoptive parents because she was afraid that her grandparents would be sad, thinking that they had carried her for many years, until she had enough wings, she wanted to return to her biological parents.
Later, her adoptive mother fell and was bedridden. Hoan took care of her mother for 20 years, performing her duties and responsibilities like a biological child. Now, her adoptive mother has passed away.
Hoan shared, she is not angry with her mother, she sympathizes with her situation and really wants to know her origin.
Through a Youtube channel connecting to find relatives, Ms. Hoan shared her information with the only desire to know the source.
“If my parents are still alive, or if you can see the information, if you see any similarities in my face, please contact me. I also hope that the online community if there is information about my biological parents, please let me know, I would like to thank you.“, Hoan expressed.
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