Listening to my parents’ words to end a 4-year relationship to marry someone else, I was played by my ex-girlfriend-Young

She wants to marry him but is opposed by his parents because they belong to two different religious groups.

Lydia Yeshpaul was arrested after carrying out the attack. Photo: Bangalore News Photos

Jayakumar Purushottam, 32 years old from Bangalore city, Karnataka state, India was attacked with acid by his ex-girlfriend Lydia Yeshpaul after he decided to break up with her and go find someone new to marry.

According to MN Anucheth, deputy commissioner of the Bangalore police, the victim suffered burns to his right ear, cheek and temple but fortunately his eye was not affected.

According to the victim’s testimony, it was his ex-girlfriend who threw acid before using a scalpel to slit his face. Jayakumar shared, Yeshpaul wanted to marry him, but his parents objected because the two belonged to two different religious groups. While Yeshpaul is a Christian, Jayakumar is a Hindu.

Before his parents’ disobedience, Jayakumar decided to end a 4-year relationship three months ago. He also started looking for another person to marry.

“The fact that I was looking for my wife made her angry and carried out the attack,” Jayakumar said.

The victim was splashed with acid by his ex-girlfriend in the middle of the street while on his way home from work. A passerby saw him and took him to the hospital. Lydia Yeshpaul was arrested soon after.

Saying goodbye to love is very necessary… civilized

At the beginning of a relationship, everyone thinks about the future, a happy ending when both hold hands and walk down the aisle. But on the way of love, there will also be times when you encounter difficulties, challenges, and obstacles that make the love story break down in the middle of the road. And if one day, for some reason, both of you are forced to separate, give each other good things instead of just blaming and blaming.

Breaking up, whether right or wrong, both have a share of responsibility. Breaking up is just a transition from a lover to a friend or a stranger, but it does not mean becoming enemies.

When breaking up, feelings of pain, fatigue and secretly wishing not to see that person again are certain to happen. But time will erase everything. They help heal wounds and you also gradually forget everything in the past.

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And if you are an ex, be a civilized person because no matter how hard you try to talk bad, pick up bad things about the other person, everything is just in the past. Listeners will think you’re too pitiful, because even though you’ve broken up, you’re still attached and nostalgic for the past.

Once you break up, you have to be the one to make him feel appreciated and nostalgic for leaving you. Telling bad things, picking up stories from the past only proves that you are petty.

So, always be a civilized and polite person after breaking up because in front there are many good and worthy people waiting for you. Don’t make yourself bad for anyone.