Received marriage proposal after 5 days of meeting and decided to get engaged, have a long term relationship with each other after 10 days, love story Sister Tien (named Amber Baliva, 24 years old, Da Nang) and her engineer husband Francisco Antonio Baliva (34 years old, US national) ) happens very quickly. However, after 3 years in the same house, they have never regretted their hasty decision.
Currently, Tien has a happy little home with her husband and son, Vincenzo Baliva, 13 months, in New York, USA. She works in the beauty and nail industry, and her husband is a housing engineer at the family building materials company.
Tien’s little nest.
Fell in love with the beautiful 9X Da Nang, the American man proposed after 5 days of meeting
Tien and her husband, My, met each other through the introduction of a relative. Back then, the two were not impressed with each other. Francisco did not want to know anyone, especially since the geographical distance between them was too far, he was afraid that it would be difficult to keep acquainted. And Tien was worried about the age of the two when she was 10 years older than him, a little older than him. However, after being persuaded and talked to by relatives, after 1 month, Francisco decided to book a ticket to Vietnam to meet him for the first time.
“My first impression when I met him was that he was very different in the photos, on the phone, very handsome and friendly. He was very shaken when he saw me and hugged me right at the airport. As for me, he said that when he first saw me, he wanted to marry me.” Tien smiled and said.
If at first, he had doubts about the distance, after meeting him, he changed completely. Primarily, they felt that they were more compatible than before, so after only 5 days of meeting, Francisco decided to propose to her. And only after returning to Vietnam for 10 days, they got engaged and had a long-term relationship.
“When I took her to Linh Ung pagoda in Da Nang, where we were both looking at the sea, she suddenly took out her ring and asked, “Would you like to be my wife?” I was surprised and agreed. As it turned out, she asked her father to take her to buy ring and secretly didn’t tell me.” said Tien.
Francisco wanted to marry her the first time he met her.
Sharing about the reason why the two decided to get married so soon, Tien confessed that, after finding out, what made her decide to marry him was because they were in the same situation and lost their mother. In particular, he is very caring, loves and cares for her little by little. Not only that, he is very friendly and cares about his family as well as his family. That’s what made her not hesitate when she agreed to be his wife after only 5 encounters with a man on the other side of the world.
Moreover, because the two knew each other through the introduction of their family members, they both loved each other. His family considered Francisco like a son and loved him very much.
Husband is like a queen
Ms. Tien and Mr. Francisco got married in 2019. They held their engagement ceremony in Vietnam and the wedding ceremony was held in the US. Speaking of this, she smiled and said that it was only on her wedding day that she was able to meet everyone in her husband’s family. My wife and I and everyone danced and drank all night long. His father-in-law was the one he danced with at the very happy wedding.
After marriage, she and her husband understand each other more and share more. The two of them spend time together playing, cooking very happily. If at first she finds it difficult for a couple to integrate when they are different in life and eating culture, after a while, she learns to adapt to eating, and at the same time, she also cooks a lot of different Vietnamese dishes for her husband. . Thanks to that, with the couple’s efforts, he gradually got along. Currently, she feels fine and doesn’t have too many problems in her married life.
When he first came to the US, he faced many difficulties to integrate.
Tien admitted that although the decision to get married was very fast, she never regretted it, especially when she was pregnant and gave birth abroad, she loved her husband even more. From the moment he met her until she got married and when she was pregnant, Francisco cared for and cared for her like a queen.
When she misses home, he takes her to eat Vietnamese dishes near her house, cooks dishes for her to try, cleans the house and helps her with the laundry and dishes. When she was pregnant, she cried in happiness and took care of him little by little, unable to wear shoes and socks, he was always the one to carry her when she left without him asking for help. She always massaged her feet after she came home from work and when she was pregnant. He also always asks how he feels, making him happy when he is sad.
After giving birth, she supported him with everything to take care of the child, it was she who took care of the child more than her sister. When a newborn needs to get up to feed and change a diaper, it is he who always wakes up and does everything, not waking him up to rest. He played with his son every day, so he was closer to his father than his mother.
“For a true expat, I feel lonely during pregnancy and miss my loved ones but luckily my husband understands that, so he always cares and loves me a lot during pregnancy. When I want to eat something, I go buy it from far away, every night I massage my limbs because I have aches and pains and my feet are a little swollen.
After giving birth, I had a lot of stretch marks, which made me feel very self-deprecating and sad, but my husband said, “It’s okay, you should be proud because it’s a legacy of a mother after a long battle, so no matter what happens . , she still feels it is very beautiful”, I am very happy about this”, Tien confessed.
He took great care of her.
Not only her husband, but also her in-laws were very concerned, she remembered when her mother-in-law was seriously ill still trying to knit a scarf for her for fear of not being able to see her. When she was in Vietnam, she called her daughter-in-law and treated her like her own daughter. His father-in-law loved him very much, always asking about him and his children, helping him adapt and harmonize life in America.
For Mrs. Tien, for a happy and lasting marriage, understanding and sympathy are very important. When approaching marriage which is a friendship of 2 people who are on the same path, sometimes there will be ups and downs and difficulties, but as long as you believe in this marriage, in your partner, everything will be fine, difficulties and challenges can be overcome.