Despite all running after young love and the day of return is bitter and sad

Mrs. Diane De Zoysa (60 years old, from East Lothian, England) has been returned to her hometown after years of being engulfed in the tragedy of her life. marriage with her young husband Priyanjana De Zoysa (26 years old, in Sri Lanka).

Ms. Diane first met Priyanjana during a trip to Sri Lanka in 2011. Despite her age and objections, she was determined to date a young man.

Only 7 months later, she married this man. After the wedding, she gave up everything in her hometown to move in with her husband.

Mrs. Daniel and her young husband are 34 years younger than her. Photo: Metro.

She sold her old house and used the money to build Priyanjana a new house. She bought her husband a car to drive a taxi.

Suddenly in May 2017, Priyanjana was assassinated by thugs. After her husband’s death, Diane found some identification in her husband’s belongings, showing that he had a second wife. It turned out that the husband married her purely for the money.

At this time, Mrs. Diane was also “under house arrest” by her husband’s family. “They didn’t let me go out for almost 2 years, even to the nearby beach. They forbade me from selling my house and even demanded my pension.”she said.

She then contacted the British Consulate in Colombo (Srilanka) for help. Finally, Mrs. Diane was returned to her hometown.

“I lost £90,000 to Priyanjana, even now I still have £4,000 in credit card debt. I came home empty handed and from now on I have to try to rebuild my life“, she said sadly.

Signs that he doesn’t love you but just uses you

You are immersed in love and easily sympathize, ignoring many of his flaws and flaws. You think he loves you as much as you love him.

What about reality? Not all men are truly in love. In some cases, a man just wants to take advantage of his lover for some reason and he tries very hard to hide it.

Women are usually easy-going and soft-hearted. Taking advantage of this, the other “exploiters” have more opportunities to approach and “exploit”. However, the needle inside the sheath is also prone to sticking out.

Men, no matter how skillful, will have behaviors that prove his unrequited love. So, if you are in love, stay awake and check if your lover has the following signs.

If so, be on the lookout for the possibility that he’s taking advantage of you, not real love.

1. You pay every time you date

Although there is no concept that a man always has to pay in every game, meal, but that does not mean that you have to withdraw your wallet every time.

If it’s not sharing the cost of the bill on each outing, he’s also responsible for the other times after. And in the case that all the dates are done by you, it’s clear that he is either a kibo or is intent on your “openness”.

2. Only free when you need you

When you need him to be there, to help you with something, he has a reason to refuse or not come to you. But when he needs your help (both physically and mentally, physically…), he will appear in front of you every day, texting, calling you continuously until he reaches your goal. Just got a new idea.

If you’re not sober and think it’s because he’s too busy to help you or he needs you too much, you should reconsider.

3. Financially dependent on you

Not only for you to pay all the bills when dating, even when he needs to buy something or use for personal and family needs, he also asks for you.

He may use sweet words that say shopping for the future of the two of you to make you soft and agree to spend money. In fact, he only buys for himself and his family, the future is very far away. So you need to be very careful in this regard.

4. Blame You For Everything

No matter what mistakes or failures he makes in life, he blames you, assuming you’re the way you are. He thinks that he himself has no mistakes at all, so the person who is responsible for “handling” all mistakes and failures is you, not him.

This proves that he is an irresponsible person who only knows himself without caring about right or wrong or your feelings. What do you still regret for a person like that who didn’t break up soon?

5. Never buy anything for you

Wants to take advantage of you, but he never buys you anything even though you do many things for him. If you ask him, he will say it’s because he doesn’t want to show himself as a lover, clinging to his lover, material things are frivolous, just love is enough…

In fact, he doesn’t want to be too close to you, much less show it emotional your own for others to know. This proves that he is not weak to you sincerely.

Some guys are even more “scheming”. He does not give gifts to his lover so that if he breaks up later, he will easily say that because the girl is pursuing him, he has no feelings for her.

According to Giadinh