My sister got married, my mother-in-law gave me 5 million to celebrate the wedding, but she told me one thing in displeasure
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Hello Sunflower,
Next week is my sister’s wedding. She marry a rich man Yes. When I heard about this, my mother-in-law was very happy. She also hinted that her rich sister should help her sister. But for me, I don’t like to be in debt to anyone, nor do I like to take advantage of my loved ones.
This morning, my mother-in-law gave me 5 million, said to send wedding money my sister. But then she told me again: “Remember to eat well and speak well, please your sister and then ask for a few tens of millions to repay the debt. A big wedding is a lot of money.”
I was surprised by the advice of my mother-in-law. It is true that my wife and I have a bank debt, but we can manage it on our own, we don’t need to take advantage of our sister, right? I’m very upset. In your opinion, should I return my mother-in-law 5 million and directly refuse her request? (nhugia…@gmail.com)
Hello,
This is not only about money but also mother-in-law – daughter-in-law relationship. If you are not subtle enough, it will certainly make things more complicated.
About the amount of 5 million, you should not return it, but discuss it with your husband. He should be the one to explain things to your mother-in-law. From giving money to celebrate the wedding through “sending” the daughter-in-law, is it polite? Going to ask for money from your sister. He needs gentle, clear analysis for your mother-in-law to realize the problem. From there, she will change her thoughts and actions.
In case your mother-in-law still maintains the thought “If you are rich, you must help me”, you should make it clear so that she understands, getting married does not mean that the wife is allowed to use money freely. Money is a delicate matter, public transparency and unity between husband and wife. Speak gently so that your mother-in-law understands and sympathizes with your heartache and confusion when being placed in such a difficult situation.
Dear.
Sunflower.
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