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Smart people, very good at saving words

The talent of a sage is hidden in a pearl, not easy for others to understand.

The line between really smart people and people pretending to be smart is also here, one side wants to hide and the other side wants to show off.

1. A really smart person is someone who knows how to hide his ability when doing things

There is a simple life advice as follows: Keep 30% of your sense of mystery.

Never show 100% of yourself to others. Of course, this is not telling us to use tricks and tricks, but rather it will make others curious with the abilities you have not shown.

Know how to hide your intelligence, and when necessary, reveal yourself only moderately. This is the first principle that the proverb “deeply hidden” tells us.

Unrevealed secrets are words that only very capable people are qualified to say. If a person has no ability, then there is not much to show, let alone conceal? So, before you hide your abilities, think about whether you’re deep enough.

If not deep enough, honestly be a fool, see far, don’t pretend to be wise just for a little vanity, don’t tell a lie because of a lie. will make you use a thousand other lies to cover. Be calm, make a life plan for yourself and gradually improve your capacity. This is the second principle that the proverb “deeply hidden” tells us.

It takes us 2 years to learn to speak, but it takes 60 years to learn to be silent: Smart people, very good at saving words - Photo 1.

2. A really smart person knows how to hide 70% of himself when communicating

Ernest Hemingway said:

It takes us two years to learn to speak, but it takes sixty years to learn to be silent.

Sometimes when you run out of words to say, you lose all interest and meaning. Wise people know what to say and what not to say.

And especially not being able to lie.

There is a saying “Smart people don’t do shady things, honest people don’t tell lies”.

Smart people won’t lie. Because they know that if they lie, they will have to use other lies to make up for it. Doing so, will only make them sink deeper and deeper into the quagmire of lies.

Don’t exaggerate.

People who speak exaggeratedly, often have a lust for vanity, like to show off, show off, and are unrealistic, with their stomach full of straw, they learn to speak up, and as a result, they only know how to embarrass themselves in front of others.

When a smart person is really determined to do something, he will never tell others with his lips, but they will only silently make efforts, silently work. Because they understand that instead of rambling all over the place, spend that time making an effort.

Don’t say mindless words.

Sometimes knowing but not saying is showing the charm of personality; placidly and quietly pretending to be stupid is the best self-cultivation.

Smart people keep a condescending attitude in how they live and how they treat people. They are ready to “play stupid” at the right time, to satisfy the pride and vanity in the character of others, to protect future relationships.

Words have little meaning, more precious than gold and jade. Your words should be like the stars in the dark, not the firecrackers on New Year’s Eve – because no one treasures the sound of firecrackers that last all night?

It takes us 2 years to learn to speak, but it takes 60 years to learn to be silent: Smart people, very good at saving words - Photo 2.

3. Person really smart knows how to hide his arrogance in life

Zeng Quoc Phien once sent a letter to his younger brother, Tang Quoc Thuyen, when he had won a great victory in the army, with a poem in the letter admonishing his brother how to be human.

“Leave the general public and the right to blaspheme the letter, the world depends on its own and minus

The first to worship the yang theory, everything is too frivolous.”

This is to warn the younger brother not to be arrogant, the more meritorious he must learn to be humble.

Reliance, overconfidence, arrogance, and boasting will inevitably lead to disaster. There is a saying: “The tree is taller than the forest, it will be cut down by the wind; if the sand hill is higher than the shore, it will be flattened by the waves.”

Talented people never lack intellectual intelligence. The only thing that makes them fail is arrogance. Once arrogant, will become conceited, never listen to the advice of others and gradually push themselves into an isolated situation that is difficult to get out of.

Taking a step back, the sea is wide and the sky is high. The more ripe the rice, the lower it is. The truly wise are those who know how to be humble. Most of them live a simple, just and carefree life. Because they know very well that there is nothing in the world to brag about and nothing to depend on for the rest of your life.

Humility and hiding is the wisest way to live. Humble people, talking less and doing more can become great things.

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