In today’s life, many couples after getting married have chosen not to have children or only have one child. There are many reasons why they are afraid to have children, most of which are related to economic factors. So, seeing a mother who spends her youth giving birth to children, giving birth to 6 children in 10 years, really makes people admire.
This strong woman’s name is Gu Shiwei, a full-time mother, 39 years old, living in Tamsui, New Taipei City, Taiwan.
The mother of 10 years gave birth to 6 children in a row.
Having too many children and in a row causes this mother to face many troubles. Even the mother-in-law openly told her daughter-in-law: “I beg you, don’t give birth to me again“. The reason is that the mother-in-law is afraid that she and her husband cannot bear the burden of raising children, leading to debt.
Although the family has many children, all the children are well educated
Currently, the 5 children under Gu Shiwei’s tutelage are all very independent and talented. Even her mother-in-law who was against her birth had to admit it.
Mother-in-law said:All these children are raised by my daughter-in-law and are well educated“.
The eldest daughter, Hope Hsu (10 years old), not only knows how to play the piano but also won many awards.
The second daughter, Ellie Hsu (8 years old), although young, loves to help her mother with housework, also studied piano from a young age, often practicing with her sister.
The 3rd child unfortunately passed away early, but for family members, this child always lives in everyone’s heart, so Gu Shiwei always says he has 6 children.
The fourth child named Mila Hsu (5 years old) is very passionate about art, since childhood has loved dancing.
The only boy in the family, Luke Hsu (4 years old) is very pampered by his parents, sociable, cute, very popular with his grandparents.
The sixth child just born in January 2021, named Timo Hsu, was born by home birth. To save money on hospitalization, Gu Shiwei decided to give birth at home with the help of a midwife.
Gu Shiwei chose to give birth at home to save money.
Having many children, but the mother still has time for herself
Having so many children continuously will certainly have a significant impact on the health of the mother. However, unlike many people’s imagination, Gu Shiwei not only takes good care of his children but also cooks very well. In addition, her math and English are also very proficient. She can both cook and help with homework.
In the process of raising children, Gu Shiwei never spoiled his children. She also doesn’t worry about her children getting hurt or going against her will, even encouraging them to do what they want.
In particular, all of her children started doing housework at the age of 4. She will give rewards to encourage them to take the initiative. When children earn money from housework, she takes them shopping and teaches them to distinguish between wants and needs.
In addition, in daily life, Gu Shiwei pays great attention to courtesy, teaching his children to love and be grateful, such as hugging his father every time he comes home from work, giving each other gifts when he has pocket money.
Sometimes Gu Shiwei would enjoy some quiet time alone.
As for herself, Gu Shiwei never treated her badly, whenever she had time, she went out with her friends. She often goes out for coffee, shopping and having a good time for herself.
Understanding and companionship from the husband
The reason the family is so harmonious and happy is thanks to the understanding and support from the husband. Although the parents-in-law objected, the children’s father never complained. Instead, he always supports and protects his wife and children.
The family has many children but is very happy.
Gu Shiwei grew up in an unhappy family, so she longs for the home of a real family. The husband understands his wife’s situation, so he loves her even more. After getting married, the two became more empathetic and supportive of each other.
The husband not only earns money to support the family but also helps his wife in taking care of the children. With 6 children, from the time the wife was pregnant to the time she gave birth, the husband was always by his side and cared for his wife.
Although they have been married for 10 years, the couple still treat each other very well, with a passionate love that makes everyone jealous.
The reason behind Gu Shiwei’s preference for having many children
For Gu Shiwei, the reason why she prefers to have many children may be due to an unhappy childhood and lack of family affection. So, deep in her heart, she always wanted to make up for herself. She gives her children boundless love, giving them a happy family.
Although her mother-in-law often opposes her having more children, they still love her daughter-in-law. When Gu Shiwei gave birth to his third child less than 40 days ago, the child unfortunately passed away. It was a shock to her, but then her mother-in-law immediately comforted her and said, “it’s not my fault“Especially her mother-in-law, who hugged her to comfort her.
Currently, Gu Shiwei’s 6th child is more than 1 year old and the couple plans to have another pair. For Gu Shiwei, despite financial pressure, the happiness and joy of being with family cannot be replaced by money.
By: QQ , Sohu
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