Young wives always feel sorry for their husbands when they have finished “having sex”, the unexpected reason behind it

Woman “climaxes” in her dreams and fantasies about sex

When there is a dream related to sexEven imagining a relationship with a third person while having sex with their partner, many people feel very sorry, guilty and consider it a very bad thing.

Master, Doctor Phan Chi Thanh – Head of the Center for Training and Direction (Central Hospital of Obstetrics and Gynecology) said that over the years of consultation, doctors have met many people, including women. The world shares about dreams about sex scenes, even imagining relationships with other people while being close to their partners.

Dr Thanh said that sexual dreams can occur in both men and women.

Doctor Thanh shares about Ms. MN (30 years, in Hanoi), who has a husband and one child. Initially, while sleeping, she often dreamed of a “climax” with someone other than her husband. Later, when having sex with her husband, she couldn’t reach orgasm, but when she imagined a “third person,” she easily achieved that feeling. This situation repeated itself, making him feel guilty, so he went to the doctor for advice.

“After such dreams and fantasies, I feel very guilty, ashamed and sorry for my husband. I myself do not understand why I have such a dream,” said N.

He further recounted that the people who appeared in his dreams were not acquaintances, often unclear. This mother of one child does not have a habit of taking selfies or watching hot movies and scenes online.

Doctor Thanh said that not only the case of this patient but many people also have the same situation, but very few people seek medical advice.

If the sexual act stops only in dreams, the imagination is not wrong, not worthy of condemnation or discrimination. Illustration.

No curses, no evil if you just stop at dreams and fantasies

The occurrence of sexual dreams is very diverse, of which sex with a stranger is one of the most common fantasies. In fact, many men share the dream of being in a relationship with a beautiful model and film actress.

“It’s very common for a man or woman to have fantasies or dreams about sex, it’s just a matter of whether we share them or not. There are clear boundaries and distinctions between sexual fantasies and actual sexual behavior. Therefore, we should absolutely not judge other people or obsessing and discriminating against yourself based on dreams related to sex,” said Doctor Thanh.

According to Dr Thanh, dreams lie deep in the subconscious, are not related to perception and do not reflect everyone’s perception. In the legal system, criticism is based only on sexual acts and their adverse effects on oneself and others, but not judgments or judgments about fantasies related to sex.

“A person who imagines a sex scene with a beautiful young girl and then performs it in a certain way with a stranger without consent is against the law. If the behavior is only in imagination and does not affect other people, then no one will condemn it, and it will not violate ethics and laws,” said Doctor Thanh.

Men are more likely to have sexual dreams than women. Illustration.

Men imagine more than women

Sexual fantasies or dreams are more common in men than women. According to Doctor Thanh, the frequency of sexual thoughts and fantasies in men is 4-6 times higher than women per day. The reason is, the male hormone testosterone is a determining factor in the initiative in thinking about sexual activity.

According to doctors Thanh testosterone is a male hormone, but in fact, women also have this hormone, but in women only in very low concentrations, equal to 1/10 of men. Therefore, women’s sexual initiative is often less than that of men.

“Testosterone in women is usually highest in the middle of the menstrual cycle, near the time of ovulation to stimulate women to have associative thoughts, increasing sexual desire.

In addition, each individual woman also has different levels of testosterone, and this concentration usually decreases with age. Therefore, middle-aged women often have many problems related to reduced desire to get married,” said Doctor Thanh.

However, in women, in addition to active desire, there is also passive desire in response to sexual stimulation. Passive desire is most clearly seen at the start of activity, many women have low active desire, but after foreplay and husband stimulation, women find increased desire and response to stimulation.

Thus, active desire is influenced by physical, hormonal, and age-related factors, whereas passive desire relies heavily on appropriate sexual stimulation and romantic circumstances to increase arousal. “Sex is a wonderful gift of life, but couples need to share and interact to make it more diverse and enrich their sex life to thrive in both quantity and quality,” advises Dr. Thanh. .

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