Every meal, take his wife 50,000 to the market, ask to cook all 3 dishes, until he looks at the tray of rice and his face turns pale
When she is not respected by her husband, women will have their own way of behavior so that men understand that if they are loved, they will be tolerant and when they are disrespected, they will also defy everything. Like the new story shared on the social network of a young wife named MK below.
K. said: “For the past few months couple I argued constantly about the economy because this time my work was difficult, my income was reduced by almost half. My husband not only does not sympathize, but constantly nags and despises his wife.
In fact, in times of pandemic and common difficulties, husband and wife should have encouraged each other. Sad that my husband is happy when he has money, when it is difficult, he turns to be grumpy and calculates with his wife. In the past, how did I spend, he didn’t ask much attention, now I just give money to my wife as a method of giving alms. Moreover, I suspect that my wife hides money as her own, so I feel tired and extremely pressured. I have always thought, it is difficult for husband and wife to know how to love and protect each other and everything will be over. It’s good to have money here, without money to despise each other, there’s nothing like a home.”
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K. confided that she also commented many times, talked frankly with her husband about her thoughts, but he refused to change. Even her husband directly stated that money decides everything, not making money, not having the right to speak. This makes K. extremely angry. Meanwhile, in addition to going to work to take care of finances with her husband, for many years of marriage, she has single-handedly taken care of the housework and taking care of children. K.’s husband only considers it a natural responsibility of a woman when she gets married, she doesn’t do anything.
“This month, my children are sick a lot, both sides have a few weddings, so try to spend more. I made it clear to my husband, I also wrote down the amounts in the books, but he ignored it. He said: ‘The lack of money depends on whether a woman is smart or not, not every time she runs out of money, she asks her husband to give it to her. I’m not a money printer’.
Meanwhile, the salary I received was spent to spend. After talking for a long time, he finally took his wallet, but only gave his wife exactly 50k and said: ‘You eat pepper like a grave, giving her money is like pouring water into a bottomless bucket. You’d better go to the market now and I’ll give you the money. As long as she doesn’t make money, then I just divide each meal to spend 50k to buy food. No need to be fussy, every 3 dishes 1 meal, 1 stir-fry, 1 boiled, 1 bowl of soup is fine.
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I really have nothing to say. He put 50k on the table like giving alms, giving grace and then taking the car to go out so that his wife could take care of the children while taking care of the market. When it was time to eat, he drove home, but when he got to the table, looking at the tray of rice, there was only a plate of white salt, a plate of boiled vegetables, and boiled beans, he told his wife: ‘Where is the food not served?’.
The child holding the child calmly replied: ‘Food is just that. He specified 50k/meal and had 3 dishes left, that’s all I could buy. He wants to have enough meat and fish, 3 regular dishes, from tomorrow to go to the market and buy it, but I can’t take care of that. Housework will also be divided from now on. Otherwise we disband, I’m too tired to live with a husband who only cares about money’.
That night, my husband was angry at his wife for not eating, taking a bath and going back to bed. For several days in a row, I still maintain a plate of white salt and boiled beans for vegetarianism. My housework was also divided, on the 5th day, he knew he couldn’t stay with his wife anymore, he went to the market by himself, but bought 2 meals, he went back to his wife’s side and whispered: ‘Acknowledged that food is really expensive now. Go to the market and run out of millions of silver”.
K. shared that, after a week of “strike” she had achieved results beyond expectations. Her husband knows how expensive it is to spend money on his own, and knows how hard it is to do housework every day, so he admits his mistake and corrects it. From then on, knowing how to live properly, respect your wife more.
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