For the first time having sex with a young pilot, the girl guarded the question that her boyfriend had ‘lost his virginity’

Experiencing 2 love affairs, Lan Anh is quite curious after having a relationship with a new boyfriend. Love struck lightning, went to bed quickly with a new lover who was 6 years younger than Lan Anh.

This guy told Lan Anh that she was his first love. The first girl he’s madly wants to go to bed with right after he meets him for the first time.

So after only 3 times of meeting, they “do it” together. “Even though you say you have never loved anyone, the way you make love is like a man who has experienced it. This makes me wonder… do you ever lose your virginity? Is it true for me to be your first time? Is the first time a man’s relationship is different from the next time?”, Lan Anh wondered.

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Answer this question, Master’s degree, Doctor Pham Minh Ngoc specializes in Andrology, Hanoi Hospital of Andrology and Infertility said that sex is always an eternal, somewhat delicate issue, but it is a topic that always attracts attention and curiosity to both sexes, at all ages.

The hymen is a thin mucosal tissue 2-3cm from the girl’s opening, surrounding or partially covering the vaginal opening, with one or several small holes for menstruation to exit. In women, most of the first intercourse marks the most obvious and easiest change, but the “loss of virginity” is different in men.

Whether men have “lost their virginity” or not, are there any distinguishing characteristics that men have had sex with is always a matter of interest, concern and curiosity of many people.

“In terms of anatomy, from a medical point of view, there is no anatomical basis to judge whether a boy has had intercourse for the first time or not.

Therefore, it is unfounded to define men as literally “losing virginity” as in women. In some cases, men also bleed during sex for the first time, mainly because the man broke the brake line during the act.

This is an unusual sign and is a male emergency that needs to be treated with a brake restorative procedure. Therefore, determining whether a guy has sex for the first time or not will depend a lot on evaluation through emotions, gestures, and behavior when acting”, Ths. Dr. Minh Ngoc said.

According to experts, the first love is always a memorable memory for both sexes. If the first “love” goes smoothly, it will create sublimation emotions, a strong desire to stick more, and stimulate the next time relationships.

However, in reality, not every first “love” is complete. In most couples, the first “love” is extremely nervous and excited. The pampering and pampering of the lover will make men have new feelings, which cannot be felt when masturbating.

Since then, the desire to increase dramatically, leading to not being able to penetrate the girl, has already ejaculated, like not having gone to the market and running out of money. Many male friends only ejaculate right after exchanging kisses, or right at the foreplay, mistakenly thinking that they have premature ejaculation disease and rush to see a doctor.

Others have a psychological condition. Especially in adolescence, when they are not equipped with enough baggage and knowledge to “act”, it is easy to feel sneaky, self-deprecating, thinking that they are doing something wrong, and worrying about their future. relationships, worrying about unwanted pregnancy, etc. all create invisible pressure, so the psyche, making the boy preparing for battle, collapses, like going to war without a weapon. Even if the other party is stimulated, the boy can’t get an erection, so he can’t continue to have sex.

Therefore, both sexes need to learn and equip themselves with the most basic knowledge about sexual experience, position of genital organs, and ensure safety when having sex. If still can not overcome the couple can go to the sex specialist doctors to listen to exchange, advice and guidance in the most detailed way, “said Dr. Minh Ngoc.

H. Phong