1. You have a sense of humor
Humor is an important skill that helps you attract more people around you. When you’re funny, people naturally want to be around you. They know they will be able to laugh at your crazy stuff and the conversation will be fun. A sense of humor isn’t for everyone and it’s a sign that you’re more attractive than you think.
2. You are an optimist
Optimism is a great virtue. No one likes to be with someone who is always complaining and having negative thoughts.
Optimists always think positive and try to see the bright side. If you have this attitude to life, not looking for faults but focusing on finding solutions when problems arise, you are truly attractive to other people.
3. Are you a good listener?
It is often said that listening is the best motivator and good listeners tend to have more friends than non-listeners and they are liked by others.
Listening also helps you learn about other people’s interests and values, helps you develop trust with them, and strengthens relationships.
However, just sitting there and listening is not enough. If you want to have a more meaningful conversation with someone who is struggling, ask questions that help them open up about what they’re going through.
Your focus, attentive listening helps the other person feel more comfortable talking, feel cared for. They find themselves able to open themselves up to share what they think or feel without fear of being judged.
Listening also helps you better understand why people think or do what they do rather than getting stuck in judgments about who is right and who is wrong. That’s really the attraction.
4. You don’t judge
Whoever it is, the judges are really annoying. It’s hard not to get annoyed when people like that are always trying to bring other people down.
If you’re not judgmental, it means you can accept them for who they are, instead of trying to change them into someone else. Each of us needs to learn not to judge. No one wants to play with someone who is always judgmental, and if you are an open and easy-going person, that naturally makes you a lot more attractive.
You can’t always avoid people with bad personalities or constantly judging others, and a smile can be a way to defuse the situation.
5. You have natural beauty
Natural beauty is something we all crave. When you are endowed with the beauty of nature, you can make those around you feel more comfortable and interested. You don’t hide yourself behind many layers of makeup, always be confident and that makes you more attractive.
6. Friends like to hang out with you
If people enjoy spending time with you, it means you are an interesting person. One sign that you’re actually more attractive than you think is that your friends ask you out often.
Everyone wants to be around someone interesting, and they tend to be approachable and friendly with interesting people. Your kind and cheerful nature is contagious and everyone feels it around you.
7. You make people feel comfortable around
People may forget what you said but will never forget how you made them feel. One of the signs of a person’s attractiveness is to make those around him feel comfortable.
If people feel like they can be themselves around you, you’re a great person.
8. You are not afraid to be yourself
When you can confidently live your true self, people will naturally be attracted to you. They know they can trust you, tell you their secrets, and chat safely. They also don’t always have to be very alert when they’re around you, and that fosters a stronger bond between the two of you.
9. You are not afraid to speak your mind
People will naturally be attracted to you when you are confident and a good communicator. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind as that will not only help the other person get to know you better, it will also help build a relationship based on trust and respect.
If you’re not afraid to speak your mind and are always willing to listen to what other people have to say, you’re actually more attractive than you think.