My husband and I had been married for almost a year, then moved to live separately. On the day of the housewarming, she pouted to indicate that she herself was dissatisfied with being away from her parents. But I was too insistent, I didn’t accept the situation of staying at my husband’s house with unnecessary pressure. The day I moved in, my husband and I had a fight, and he’s been arguing with me ever since.
His parents also thought that I was controlling my son, so they didn’t like their daughter-in-law. But only insiders can understand how tired I was in the days living with my husband. My mother-in-law often checks on me, making it difficult for me. Whatever I do, my mother-in-law will criticize me. I have never expressed my opinion in my husband’s family. I seem to have no voice, like a stranger. My husband also only knows how to listen to his parents, not taking his wife seriously.
He purposely did nothing to leave me alone. He wanted me to work hard so I could see what it was like to be out in the open. (illustration)
I want him to go out on his own to be independent, independent, and also want my husband to be more mature. However, my husband is not only unchanged, but worse than before. He purposely did nothing to leave me alone. He wanted me to work hard so I could see what it was like to be out in the open.
So when I opened my mouth to ask my husband to do something, he would immediately say back to me: “If you can go out and live alone, do it yourself, I am not free”. That is, when at home, my husband is helped by my grandparents, and the children are taken care of by their parents. But you don’t understand, there are things that are much more tiring and stressful.
Even though I worked harder on the outside, I always felt psychologically comfortable, free to live, and to be myself. Not living with in-laws, thinking that getting rid of tiring supervision, entangled in an irresponsible husband.
Every morning, my husband gets up and goes to work. Recently because of the plague, he had me prepare rice for him to take to work. Every morning I wake up at 6am, do all sorts of things, cook for my husband and then prepare my kids to get up for breakfast and go to school. In the afternoon, I assigned my husband to pick up the children because he came home early, but he refused. One day he makes excuses to be busy, another day he says he is going to a party. One day, when my parents drove me home, I saw my husband lying on the chair, rice was not plugged in, I was boiling blood and was scolded. He cleared his throat again and said that I like to go out alone, so I have to accept it.
Every day that goes by, I have to work hard and lose weight. He told me that if it was too difficult, I would return to live with my husband’s parents, but I firmly refused. You and I are always fighting. In the evening, I served rice and clean water on the table, but he constantly made excuses for criticism. He criticized me for not cooking good rice and praised my neighbors for cooking rice like a restaurant. He knows my husband and I and loves to take pictures of our dishes online and show them off to his friends. In fact, she cooks quite well, and the presentation is also very attractive and beautiful.
Don’t stay there and raise your voice. She didn’t do anything wrong, her hands didn’t get wet all day, her kids didn’t take care of her, didn’t pick her up. (illustration)
The first time he said it was okay, but then he kept saying it made me angry.
“Look at yourself, being a husband is not the same as being a husband, being a man is cowardly. You are trying to make money, give me 1 month 40 million like her husband to see if I can cook delicious food for you, serve it beautifully? Her husband is rich, goes to work for almost a hundred million, and brings his wife 40 million. She only stays at home to take care of her husband and kids, then goes online for recipes and arrangements. If I was given that kind of money a month by him, I would cook better than him. Don’t stay there and raise your voice. She didn’t do anything wrong, her hands didn’t get wet all day, her kids didn’t take care of her, didn’t pick her up. Everything you put on this kid, you can still sit there and talk. Honestly, I’m so tired. If you think that my child is born, I will take care of it, then from tomorrow, divorce. My child was raised by me, I don’t need to raise more pieces of meat and wood like you.”
After that, I carried the child into the room, closing the door hard. I clearly assign tasks with a sheet of “household division of labor.” If you still don’t do it, don’t help your wife, I decide to divorce with no regrets. The next morning, I saw my husband getting up early, preparing food for me to go to work. He also did not forget to tell me that he would pick up the child in the evening. Maybe because I was too determined and tense yesterday, correctly said his “black heart”, he realized a lot of things. Honestly, if you don’t help, why should I raise and care for an adult like you?
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