Women shouldn’t be pragmatic these days, but definitely be practical. I have heard the sentence with my ears, and find it very reasonable.
But when I became an insider, I could no longer reason like that. I was blinded by love, disobedient to my parents, against the advice of friends to marry a poor man. Quang’s house had nothing, not only that, but his mother was also bedridden and needed someone to take care of her day and night.
Luong Quang had just turned ten million, his mother was constantly sick, most of life revolved between the hospital and the bedroom, every month had to pay several million for medicine. Married to Quang, she carried a heavy economic burden and also had to take care of her ailing mother-in-law. I am the only son, everything fell on my daughter-in-law’s head.
Quang’s house had nothing, not only that, but his mother was also bedridden and needed someone to take care of her day and night. (Illustration)
Surely people will ask if I love you with faith, maybe with true faith, lady. The costs were halved, with such a salary, Quang took care of his mother and took care of himself, and really had no money left to take care of his girlfriend. When you get married and have kids, you definitely have to work really hard. But I still kept my head down, no wonder my mother cried all her tears before the wedding because she was afraid that her daughter would fall into the pool of misery.
Looking back later, I realize that at that time I decided to marry Quang because with you, I felt very peaceful and comfortable. I don’t have to push myself, I don’t have to endure peer pressure from my boyfriend. I accept you as a person, including your strengths and weaknesses, even when you are ugly or unpleasant, I still love you generously without judging or scolding. Like that.
Regarding living together, apart from not having much money to send his wife, he treated me very well. However, her mother-in-law was seriously ill. Parents are judgmental by nature, he’s been sick all year, so his character is even worse. It can be said that I was “played” by him.
But I only listen to one ear and let it pass through the other ear, I don’t mind, I just fulfill my responsibility. Many times, when I see them, I feel sorry for myself and heartbroken, but I think that the decision is mine, so I try to fulfill my responsibilities as a wife and daughter-in-law.
After 10 months of marriage, I am pregnant with my first child. I often get sick. That night, I brought rice for my mother-in-law but complained that I didn’t eat. At 11, I was sleeping when my mother-in-law called to complain about the chicken porridge. My husband was tired of working late lately, so I got up to cook porridge for him, afraid he would be hungry. Fed up with the smell of rice, I just brought him porridge while holding my mouth and throwing up. But the mother-in-law was silent and said nothing, after eating the porridge, she sent her sister to wash the dishes.
Who would have thought that the next day I came home from work to find my mother-in-law standing in the kitchen cooking, cooking and singing at home. I widened my eyes in surprise, he showed no sign of illness, but waved his hand not to let me ask anything.
Mother-in-law cooks a table full of delicious dishes. After the meal was over, he called my wife and I and announced something that almost made me faint.
He said that he had seen a beautiful day, was about to start building a new house, hoping to have time to welcome his grandson to be born. I didn’t have time to wonder where the money to build the house came from, but my mother-in-law quickly told me how much land she owned, how many books she had in the bank, how many gold trees she had. saved.
My husband, I dare to be angry, but my mother-in-law, I do not dare to be angry with him. (Illustration)
I was surprised to know that my mother-in-law is really a strong woman, when I was young, I bought several plots of land, had a savings book of several billion, and then saved tens of gold trees. My husband’s salary is also more than 20 million, not 10 million. From start to finish, you lied to me, but your mother-in-law didn’t even have to argue. He acted very skillfully, in the span of an entire year, not a short amount of time. This daughter-in-law’s test plan was designed by the mother-in-law and forced her son to follow.
His life struggles to clash with different kinds of people, he meets too many women whose eyes only have money. So he pretends to be poor throughout, even dramatizing more “sick mother-in-law who needs to take care of her bed” to test her heart. And I successfully passed my mother-in-law’s exam. His grandson would also be born soon, he didn’t want to let him suffer, so he decided to announce everything.
My husband, I dare to be angry, but my mother-in-law, I do not dare to be angry with him. It is true that older ginger is spicy. It’s true that if you live sincerely, give with all your heart, you will eventually enjoy the sweet fruit, right, Sisters!