Many people think that now, the material life is better, since childhood, children are given a balanced diet, so they are also smarter. They know how to observe, ask questions and respond intelligently; Sometimes it’s difficult for adults to use all skills and still can’t answer.
For example, the story of a 1st grade girl (China) is attracting attention below. When the teacher asked the students to go home to draw freehand pictures, instead of drawing animals or relatives or trees, an elementary school student recounted his conversation with his father in the form of a cartoon. Parents must be “crying without tears” when seeing their children’s work.
In the picture, Tieu My asks why can’t female students go topless while male students can? It turned out that at home, she often saw her father topless and her mother not, so taking advantage of her homework, she asked questions as well.
Faced with such problems, most parents will choose to avoid, whoever is more patient will just answer perfunctory. But the father explained that: Daughter’s breasts are swollen, so it is difficult to get naked. Boys have different breasts.
However, after that, Tieu My asked one more question… it was difficult to reveal her mother’s “secret”: But why don’t mom’s breasts swell? By this time, my father could only shut up. Netizens got a laugh. Many people joke that the mother must not dare to go to school to pick up her child for a long time because she is too shy.
Although it is a funny story, it can be seen that children, although young, already know how to pay attention to everything around them. If adults do not pay attention to all their gestures and actions, it is easy to lead to awkward situations with their children.
With Tieu My’s question, parents can completely explain to their children depending on the age and understanding of the child. Many netizens also tip the father how to answer his son very well. For example: “My mother’s breast is bigger because she has to breastfeed me. Mother has to feed the baby” or “Daddy’s is small because the body structure between men and women is different, dear”,…
Parents should not scold when their children ask about sensitive things, instead establish the right concept of gender for their children.
Things parents should avoid doing in front of their children
From the age of 3-4 years old, children begin to have psychological awareness. Although not fully aware, children also gradually distinguish the difference between boys and girls. Children learn that the father is male and the mother is female.
Not only that, children also understand most of the words and actions of those around them and are affected by this, especially parents. Therefore, parents need to pay special attention to their words and actions.
Intimate in front of you
Parents showing affection such as hugging and kissing before going to work will make the family more connected and happy. When young children see their parents happy and close together, they also feel the family atmosphere is warmer. However, showing affection needs to be in moderation. Parents should be careful not to show too much in front of their children because this can easily cause them to form adult thoughts early.
Change clothes, expose sensitive parts in front of children
Many parents often carefreely change clothes or topless in front of their children because they think that their children are too young to cause any harm. However, if this goes on for a long time, it will create a physiological response that makes the child’s awareness of gender and sexuality develop earlier. Even a child’s gender perception can develop misaligned, with unfortunate consequences.
Bathing with children
From the age of 3 and up, children know how to distinguish boys and girls, and have certain perceptions about gender. At this age, fathers should not bathe girls and mothers should not bathe boys. Shared bathing should be divided by gender: The father bathes the son and the mother bathes the daughter. This will teach children to understand that there are fundamental differences between boys and girls, and that difference is completely normal.
With the growth of age, students begin to enter a period of development, this is something that should be noticed among classmates, so parents should also teach students basic common sense at school. home, including how to get along with male friends in moderation.
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