Daughter-in-law needs money, but when asked about the number of dowries her mother-in-law keeps, she gets a shocking answer-Young

I have a business to use money, but my mother-in-law “imprisoned” gold dowry at the time of marriage.

Too disappointed in her mother-in-law, do not want to stay at her husband’s house any more days. (Illustration)

I got married at the age of 25, it’s been 3 years now. My husband and I are the same age, we have a 2 year old daughter. Since getting married, my husband has been a person who cares about his wife and children and is responsible for the family.

After I got married, I went back to live with my husband’s house. I don’t understand why my mother-in-law doesn’t like me, but she is very strict with me, teaching her daughter-in-law in a fake way, speaking as if she wants to be good for me, but in fact secretly makes me miserable. Many times I just wanted to leave my husband’s house when I found out that my mother-in-law used tricks to humiliate me in front of others.

When I was pregnant, my health was not good, I had morning sickness all the time, but I could not be alone with my mother-in-law. Whenever guests come to my house to play, my mother-in-law is sweet and sweet, and “slams” me to rest and limit housework. But in fact, every day, they criticize me for using the pumpkin to avoid housework, and forcing me to do one thing after another to campaign for “easy birth”.

When I gave birth, I did not receive any support from my mother-in-law. On the contrary, my mother-in-law also interfered excessively in my child-rearing. My mother-in-law didn’t hesitate to scold me for learning bullshit parenting style, one day harming her grandchildren… Every month, when my husband goes to work to earn money, he must pay it all back to his mother-in-law. take care of his wife and children. I want to buy anything for my children, I also have to present and beg my mother-in-law to buy it.

Even the money and gold dowry of my husband and I worth 300 million VND after marriage, my mother-in-law forced her to keep it for me, I will give it to her when I need a job, but still I do not give any money. Even when I gave birth at the hospital, it was so expensive but my mother-in-law still did not give it to us, to the point that my husband had to advance the company’s salary, I had to ask my biological parents for money to take care of the hospital expenses.

Yet, on the full day of my son’s month, in front of my relatives, friends and biological parents, my mother-in-law proudly announced: “Their husband and wife are able to stay at this house like winning the lottery, no need to have to wait. I don’t have to worry about being adopted by my husband’s parents. Especially my daughter-in-law, come home to eat well, dress well, don’t have to do anything, just get fat.” Then my mother-in-law gave 5 million VND to congratulate him, showing off as a blessing.

Now that my children are at a young age, I want to open a shop to do business because at home my husband lives very limited and dependent. I was about to join forces with my cousin to open a clothing store, I asked for the amount of 300 million VND sent to my mother-in-law, and I received a shocking answer. My mother-in-law scolded me and slapped me: “That money I use to make weddings and wedding gifts. The rest also sometimes give gifts, give money to grandchildren… for a few years, the husband and wife and children here have not had to pay rent or use furniture. furniture in the house, considered as having to contribute. So happy without knowing it, are you still going to ask for that money?”.

After listening, I was shocked, stammering and unable to say anything. I told my husband about this, what I received from him was also indifference, because I knew that my husband did not dare to blame his mother, much less dared to claim back the amount of 300 million sent.

Too disappointed in her mother-in-law, do not want to stay at her husband’s house any more days. What should I do when I live with my mother-in-law so much, how do I get her to pay me back so I can do my business and go out to live alone?

(Hohien@…)