How to educate the children of CEO Ho Nhan’s mother-in-law

Ms. Nguyen Thi Son – the powerful “female general” of Son Kim Group is a famous Vietnamese businesswoman.

She is the principal of CBAM School of Business Administration under VCCI; Director of the Institute of Legal Sciences and International Business IBLA (under the Central Vietnam Bar Association); Chairman of the Board of Directors of Duy Tan Private High School.

She is also the founder of Son Kim Group and let her children take over 5 businesses in different fields, including real estate (Son Kim Land), trading business, services, catering, restaurants (Son Kim Land). Son Kim Retail), pharmaceuticals (Nanogen-Bio), interior design (Duy Quan), tea and coffee (Golden Mountain), fashion production (VERA), online sales, TV channels (GS. SHOP).

“Female general” Nguyen Thi Son of the Son Kim family.

Having lost her husband for 35 years, the “female general” of the Son Kim family alone raised 5 children and had an admirable way of handling and teaching children.

Through profound statements about the scandal of son-in-law, CEO Ho Nhan, people more respect the delicate mother. Before that, she revealed how to teach her children.

The son who is a director is still forced by his mother to “curfew”

In a letter to students, teachers and parents at Duy Tan Private School, Ms. Son clearly expressed her educational views through her family’s private story. She wrote:

“I have 5 children, all married and gave birth to seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. My children are successful people, four are business directors, one is a university lecturer.

The two daughters get married and live separately. Every Sunday, they take their grandchildren to visit their grandmother. My three sons and grandchildren previously lived with me and my mother in Thao Dien, recently the two older boys bought a new house and asked to live separately. I still live with my youngest brother and two grandchildren.

A happy, fun family, but not without noisy times. When my children were young, they were too busy playing, too lazy to study, sometimes at school meetings, I was also complained by teachers about my children’s naughty behavior.

There are times when I scold, but I never hit my children, just give advice and find ways to change their learning environment accordingly.

When my children grow up, five children with five different personalities, step by step strive to build a career, there are times when it is difficult to succeed and develop, but because of the early death of their father, all five siblings They all love their mother and do not want to make her sad.”

The sons and daughters, in-laws of Mrs. Nguyen Thi Son.

Mrs. Son’s story about a son who works as a director of a business, busy with business development, sometimes going out to drink to receive guests, coming home after midnight is particularly interesting.

For many people, it is normal to exchange and treat each other in the business world, but the sophistication of the mother in Mrs. Son says otherwise.

“I love my daughter-in-law, I stay up every night to wait for my husband, live with my mother-in-law, and do not dare to speak harshly to my husband.

At first, I loudly questioned my son, my son explained that in business, he had to receive guests. I do not accept this argument because I was also a business director, I don’t receive guests until midnight so the work is still smooth.

Customers need to buy good products from manufacturers to sell, not drink alcohol, although sometimes partners also need to invite each other to an intimate meal to express goodwill in business cooperation.

Therefore, I ask that my child, no matter how busy he is, must come home before 11 am, if he does not return after 11 am, I will call to remind him and wait. A few times like that, my son doesn’t dare to be late again.”

Mrs. Son and her eldest son’s family.

Mrs. Son’s grandchildren and great-grandchildren also enjoy her education, live in a well-ordered family, so they are all very obedient. In particular, all of them have never known what a whip or slap is.

Disagree with the way to teach love for whips

This educational philosophy is also brought by Ms. Son into the construction style of Duy Tan Private High School – Ho Chi Minh City, where she is the Chairman of the Board of Directors.

Ms. Son confided that from the love of her children and grandchildren, she also loves her students like her own children, because students have to live far away from their families.

“I sympathize with the concerns of PHHS, I always have PHHS’s phone calls to me every day, worrying about their children’s study and accommodation. Any feedback from PHHS I directly work with. with the Board of Directors to resolve.

Sometimes there are children playing mischievously leading to fights. School administrators report demanding expulsion from students deemed disruptive. I met the children, asked them to make a report and invited the PHHS to come and solve it.

I analyze the psychology and mistakes of each child, then give them discipline and give them the opportunity to correct.

Dealing in front of both sides of the PHHS, everyone feels it is reasonable, no one sees their child being bullied, but also sympathizes with the situation from the hyperactivity of youth, temporarily causing mistakes that need to be corrected and taught. not to the point of expulsion, so both parties happily agreed with the school’s solution.

From the family story, to the school story, I want to say that I disagree with the old way of teaching children to ‘love for their children’.

When parents beat their children, it often comes from anger, but if they are too angry, they will lose their wisdom, which will lead to over-stretching their children, hurting them both physically and mentally, causing them pain and fear. Fear affects the children’s psychological behavior in the future”.

Mrs. Son and her daughter – the wife of CEO Ho Nhan.

She affirmed, violence is never a way to educate, because teachers are not the children’s biological parents, so they cannot feel pain when hitting the children.

Especially for high school students who are starting to want to be adults but not yet adults. They begin to feel proud in front of their friends, or in front of a classmate that they have feelings for.

“In the case of students’ disciplinary violations, it is necessary to encourage them to have self-esteem, to respect teachers, to love their classmates and to recognize mistakes to correct.

School can be likened to a small society, with good, good, average and even poor students; There are good students and bad students, so the school manages students according to the provisions of the education law and the school’s study regulations.

The classroom can be seen as one big family. Teachers are parents, students are children, teachers love and care for students like their own children, students will study hard.”

From what the “female general” of the Son Kim family shared, it is possible to partly understand the reason for the group’s growth as well as how family members behave with each other.

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