Yell at me, but never hit me, because I’ll lose my mind if I’m too angry
Referring to the founder of Son Kim Group, Nguyen Thi Son, Vietnamese businessmen all recognize her as a real powerhouse of the Vietnamese business world. She lost her husband very early, raised 5 children under one arm, but she not only raised her children to grow up to be human but also actively supported them from experience, knowledge to finance; so that all 5 people have become the top entrepreneurs in the city. HCM.
In 1987, at the age of over 30, she was assigned by the State to manage the Legamex Company. During its heyday, this state-owned garment company had 4,000 official employees, 10,000 employees of satellite companies, and exported to countries such as the Soviet Union, Poland, Japan, France…; and was the largest garment company in Vietnam at that time.
Not only is a famous businessman, Ms. Nguyen Thi Son is also the Chairman of the Board of Directors of Duy Tan Private High School – Ho Chi Minh City. The view of loving students as her own children was expressed by Mrs. Son in a long letter to all students, teachers and parents at Duy Tan Private School. The content of the letter is as follows:
“I am 69 years old, Chairman of the Board of Directors of Duy Tan High School – Ho Chi Minh City. I have 5 children, all are married and gave birth to seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. My children are successful people, 4 are business directors, one is a university lecturer. The two daughters get married and live separately. Every Sunday, they take the grandchildren to visit their grandmother. 3 sons and grandsons previously lived with me and my mother in Thao Dien, recently 2 older boys bought a new house and asked to live separately. I still live with my youngest brother and 2 grandchildren.
A happy, fun family, but not without noisy times. When my children were young, they were too busy playing, too lazy to study, sometimes at school meetings, I was also complained by teachers about my children’s naughty behavior. There are times when I scold, but I never hit my children, just give advice and find ways to change their learning environment accordingly. When my children grow up, five children with five different personalities, step by step strive to build a career, there are times when it is difficult to succeed and develop, but because of the early death of their father, all five siblings They all love their mother and do not want to make her sad.
I tell you a story that I am proud to teach my child even though he is an adult: My son is the director of a business, the business has grown, so he is very busy, all day dealing with work. At night, I have to go to receive guests, come home sometimes at 12 o’clock at night, with a faint smell of alcohol. I love my daughter-in-law, I stay up every night to wait for my husband, live with my mother-in-law, and do not dare to speak harshly to my husband. At first, I loudly questioned my son, my son explained that in business, he had to receive guests. I do not accept this argument because I was also a business director, I don’t receive guests until midnight so the work is still smooth. Customers need to buy good products from manufacturers to sell, not drink alcohol, although sometimes partners also need to invite each other to an intimate meal to express goodwill in business cooperation. Therefore, I ask that my child, no matter how busy he is, must go home before 11 pm, if he does not return after 11 am, I will call to remind him and wait. A few times like that, my son didn’t dare to come home late anymore. Living in a disciplined family, my grandkids are very obedient. When they come home from school, they play with their grandmother, and when they come home to play, they also sleep with their grandmother. They have never known the whip or the slap. what.
As the Chairman of the Board of Directors of Duy Tan Private High School – Ho Chi Minh City, every day he interacts with high school and middle school students, most of which are boarding students from other provinces. From the love of children and grandchildren, I also love my students like my own children because they have to live far away from their families. I sympathize with the concerns of PHHS, every day PHHS calls me, worrying about the children’s study and accommodation. Any feedback from PHHS I will directly work with the Board of Directors to resolve. Sometimes there are children playing mischievously leading to fights. School administrators report demanding expulsion from students deemed disruptive. I met the children, asked them to make a report and invited the PHHS to come and solve it. I analyze the psychology and mistakes of each child, then give them discipline and give them the opportunity to correct. Dealing in front of both sides of the PHHS, everyone feels it is reasonable, no one sees their child being bullied, but also sympathizes with the situation from the hyperactivity of youth, temporarily causing mistakes that need to be corrected and taught. not to the point of expulsion, so both parties happily agreed with the school’s solution.
From family stories, to school stories, I would like to say that I do not agree with the old way of teaching children to “love for their children”. When parents beat their children, it often comes from anger, but if they are too angry, they will lose their wisdom, which will lead to over-stretching their children, hurting them both physically and mentally, causing them pain and fear. Fear affects the children’s psychological behavior in the future. At school, teachers should not hit students, because teachers are not their biological parents, so they cannot feel pain when hitting children. Especially for high school students who are starting to want to be adults but not yet adults. They begin to feel proud in front of their friends, or in front of a classmate that they have feelings for. In the case of students’ discipline violations, it is necessary to encourage them to have self-esteem, to respect teachers, to love their classmates and to recognize their mistakes to correct.
School can be likened to a small society, with good, good, average and even poor students; There are good students and bad students, so the school manages students according to the provisions of the education law and the school’s study regulations. The classroom can be seen as one big family. Teachers are parents, students are children, teachers love and care for students like their own children, students will study hard.
Preparing for the new school year, I would like to wish all the parents good health and happy families. Wishing all the students good progress in their studies and achieve many good achievements in their studies.”
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