10 psychological tips to help you “master” many everyday situations

1. Sit next to each other instead of sitting opposite

Your sitting position can affect how people feel about you. Sitting opposite easily makes the other person feel threatened and opposed, while sitting next to them gives them a much more friendly and empathetic feeling.

2. Always maintain a confident demeanor and posture

You can learn and choose for yourself the postures of walking, standing, sitting that bring a sense of confidence and power. Although not really confident, such poses can also change your thinking, making you stronger and more active.

3. Choose the right outfit color

Different colors can bring different feelings and styles to the wearer. Navy blue often denotes warmth, is a color suitable for teachers. Gray creates a sense of trustworthiness, and black gives a sense of luxury and class, which is very suitable for professions that are related to fashion.

4. Analyze other people’s eye color

Maintaining eye contact during a conversation is essential to keeping the other person’s focus. However, this task sometimes easily brings a sense of awkwardness and discomfort for both parties. So you can try someone else’s eye color analysis method for added comfort and focus.

5. Remember everyone’s name

Remembering people’s names is the first sign that you are interested and attentive to others and thereby make it easier for you to be liked.

6. Observe who smiles with whom

When you’re in a group and want to know who’s close to whom, try looking at the people they laugh with. The first person a person looks at when smiling can be the person who gives them the most comfort and attraction.

7. Reduce your choices gradually

Sometimes, having too many options is also not a good thing, easily making you confused, confused and take a lot of time. You should only have a maximum number of 4 options.

8. Ask others for help

Besides helping people, asking others for help is a way to make someone closer. Asking others to help you with a few small things will make them feel your trust and respect for them.

9. Crossed arms and legs in some cases

It is the same gesture of crossing arms and legs, but if performed in different situations, it can express different meanings. This can be a sign that other people don’t come close to you, or it can be a sign that you are welcome, satisfied with a certain opinion.

10. Warm your hands before shaking hands

No one wants to start a conversation with a cold, distant feeling. So it’s a good idea to warm your hands before shaking anyone else’s to create a friendly atmosphere.

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