Unmarried, future mother-in-law mentioned a “strange” story that scared the future bride-Young

Most of the time, I have seen that every house when a son gets married is often forced to live together, especially when there is only one son in the house like yours. By the way, my future mother-in-law has such a “strange” suggestion.

Indeed, I was very worried about what my future mother-in-law said. (Illustration)

I am working in an import-export company. This year has also turned 30 years old. My friends at this age are all settled, only I am still alone. When I found out I had a boyfriend, my friends and family were all overjoyed. The person I love works in the same place as me but in a different department.

He brought me home to meet my family after half a year of love. When I went to the house to play, I saw that his mother was a pretty easy-going person. During the pandemic, the import-export company did not have much work, so our working hours were reduced. In his spare time, he often invites me to his house to have dinner with his parents. He told me to come home more often to get used to life in my husband’s family, and then be less surprised.

His parents are both retired teachers. He lives with his parents, and his sister is married. That’s why I determined that when I got married, I would live with my husband’s parents. When she first came to visit, her future mother-in-law was very happy and often went to the kitchen to cook. Recently, she told us what we like to eat, we can arrange it ourselves. Oddly enough, in our conversations, his mother often mentioned the future.

Grandma often said in advance that her health was not good, so she couldn’t keep her grandchild. Later, if the husband and wife had children, they would take care of themselves, but she would not help. Besides, after getting married, the couple wants to go out or go to their grandmother’s house without having to ask for permission. Indeed, I was very worried about what my future mother-in-law said.

I don’t know if the days when I came to visit and live at my boyfriend’s house, did anything to offend my future mother-in-law or not, but she had such an attitude?. When questioned with his lover, he told his mother that he was telling the truth, not having any deep meaning. The day before his sister gave birth, his mother couldn’t help either. She had a vestibular disease, her health was not good, so she could not take care of her grandchildren. As for living together, don’t force it, if you want to go to your grandmother’s house, it’s okay because you think there are few lonely daughters-in-law at the husband’s house.

Although my boyfriend explained that, I was still very worried about the strange behavior of my future mother-in-law. Most of the time, I have seen that every house when a son gets married is often forced to live together, especially when there is only one son in the house like yours. By the way, my future mother-in-law has such a “strange” suggestion.

I have confide With my friends, people say I think too much, I’m happy, but I also worry. Not every mother-in-law is so comfortable with her daughter-in-law, many people want to live alone but can’t. It is not a big deal for her to support her grandchildren in the future because it is possible that she has real health problems.

Why doesn’t the future mother-in-law let it be after marriage and discuss this but is it too early to find out now? I still see many married women complaining that their mother-in-law is difficult, rebuking their daughter-in-law with all sorts of things, even though they are very rude when they are not married. I hope someone can give me some advice to see the right thing. I was psychologically prepared to live and take care of my husband’s parents, but I was not married, but my mother-in-law mentioned the “strange” thing, so I was also very worried.