Back with ex husband

My husband and I are both 36 years old, have a seven year old daughter, been married for eight years and then separated for three years. I am quite beautiful according to my friends, good at communicating and active. He is quiet and indifferent. We got married when we were young, at that time we both saw a lot of differences in our lifestyle and views, because we still decided to marry for love. Newly married is a beautiful time, both agree not to have children but want to enjoy life. We share a passion for food. I’m not good at cooking, he is willing to go with his wife to eat in all Hanoi restaurants instead of having to cook at home.

I thought this beautiful life would last until I had my first child. My husband and I had to leave a small apartment in downtown Hanoi and return to his home to care for our children. My husband’s house is 40 km from Hanoi, so my husband still leaves for work in the morning and comes home late at night. When I first gave birth to a child, I changed my mood, adding that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were choking me. His mother intervened to take care of my child, from the smallest things. At such times, I get tired and share with him, accepting the phrase “all assignments, I don’t want to hear”. I fell into depression, had nothing to share, didn’t want to talk to my husband anymore. As for him, from the day I complained and was frustrated, he also showed discomfort, when he came home, he played games or read stories and went to sleep. Since then, we have gradually lost connection, every time we talk, we argue.

I persisted until my daughter was over a year old and then used the excuse to go back to work, my biological parents are old, I am an only child, have to live with my grandparents to take care of her easily. Husband agreed and we moved back to Hanoi to stay. Although the house belonged to my parents, there was also a share of his contribution. Her physiological changes after giving birth and her carelessness made me unable to be happy even though I lived with my biological parents. I’m so sick of your carelessness. What a hassle taking care of the kids I didn’t receive a share from him, other than the fact that he hired a maid to take care of his kids, he didn’t help at all, he just played with the kids for a while. , the rest I have to take care of.

Her personality is gentle, but being with a husband like that doesn’t make me happy. In the past, I was a beautiful woman, many pursuers, active life, why now, in addition to taking care of children, I have a small quarrel with my husband. I happened to meet my friend from the past, he shared and once again gave me a glimmer of hope about the happy life I dreamed of. A caring person and an indifferent person, I had fallen into the arms of an old friend without knowing it. My husband found out and I decided to break up with him. After many times my husband couldn’t stand it, our marriage ended. We broke up, he moved to rent an apartment nearby, this house he left for my family.

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If everything went smoothly, I wouldn’t be as miserable as I am now. After spending time with new people, I saw a lot of flaws, and life returned to the same way when I remarried. My family advised me to return to my husband, my daughter loves her father very much. I broke up with a new person and changed myself, thinking that my husband still had feelings for me because he had never spoken rudely to me before, was detained many times before breaking up, still spends time visiting my children regularly, despite being divorced . I didn’t say it, secretly cared and asked him, hoping we would come back.

Until one day I got word from a friend, he had a new person. He is happy, leading new people to introduce everywhere. Through a friend, I learned that she was telling the story of our break up with everyone, asking friends to introduce her to other people, while I kept it completely secret. I dared to call and suggest that we both give each other a chance, think about our child, accept rejection. He said that even without a new person, he couldn’t come back to me. I find out, see that the new person is not as beautiful as me, young, will he accept that he once had a wife and children? Is there any other way to save my family?

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