Every time I ‘love’ my girlfriend, I moan loudly

03/23/2022 07:45 GMT+7

Mr. Nguyen Manh Thang (character name has changed, 26 years old, Hanoi) works as an IT worker and during this epidemic he often works from home. These days, Thang’s girlfriend also often visits him.

Thang said because he lives with his younger brother. At night, most of the girlfriends can’t stay overnight, so during the day, the two often choose to be close to each other.

The most miserable thing for Thang is that every time he cuddles with his girlfriend, he moans loudly. For the first time, Thang thought about how his girlfriend could be in pain and tried to encourage him and put on more music.

However, the next time his girlfriend still groaned and even screamed because she thought it was painful. Thang himself found out, the possibility of pain is very little because it is not a new relationship.

“The two of you have been close for three or four months straight. Every time I have to turn on the music louder, but the hardest part is when I stop changing songs, sometimes her cry makes me excited, but then when I go out the door to see the eyes of my neighbors, I also feel shy, “Mr. To share.

Once Mr. Thang also thought to change the space, the two went to a hotel, but his lover still groaned like that. He asked his girlfriend why she moaned, but she didn’t say anything, only knowing that when having sex, she had to moan when she had sex.

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He said that when having sex with the sound of his girlfriend, the love life is fun, but he is afraid that he will get married later and still can’t control his emotions, it will cause trouble. Moreover, Mr. Thang also lamented that he couldn’t play loud music every time he made love. If you still play music late at night to drown out your girlfriend’s moans, it’s very annoying.

Dr. Ha Ngoc Manh – Head of the Department of Andrology – Viet-Belgian Hospital for Andrology and Infertility, Hanoi said that while having sex, couples can whisper sweet words or cry, moan of their partner, which makes love more sublimated.

When having sex, the language will be completely different from everyday language, every couple has a different language, so you should say what your feelings are. In women, female orgasm occurs most commonly during foreplay and during climax.

The sounds are usually in high frequency before or at the same time as male ejaculation. Noise also helps reduce boredom, fatigue or discomfort during sex.

The sound of sex is a great tool to help women get what they want in bed. Women are still in the process of discovering their sexual needs and testing their desires.

Noise is not only pleasing to the partner, but it is a way for women to promote their pleasure. However, how the sound also needs to be shared. For example, some people like to moan, others like to hear sweet words like I love you or I love you… the love language depends on each couple.

Dr. Manh believes that there is no perfect couple from the beginning that has a phase difference and only improves when you express your feelings in the language of love.

Dr. Manh encounters many cases where men lament that their wives and partners are as silent as logs when in love and never show their feelings while most men like the sound of women moaning. and women themselves like to listen to their own noise to orgasm.

In case of moaning too loudly, even shouting, two people can share to avoid phase difference and share what the boyfriend wants himself.

Khanh Chi