Married for 4 years but no children and the end of the family
The issue of children is also a problem that many couples have to deal with. If you are lucky and everything goes smoothly and smoothly, both will soon receive good news. But on the contrary, there are many families who wait forever without any ray of hope. If the two sides do not find a solution, if they do not talk frankly, it will also cause the accumulation of smoldering conflicts, plus pressure from the family. Indeed, no one can imagine how terrible the ending could be. However, even in the most difficult situation, you can still find a way, a solution, as long as both sides have goodwill. Like story of P. below is an example.
Married for 4 years but no children, wife was shocked when she saw the paper in her husband’s cupboard
Like many other couples, P. and her husband wanted after Married, the two gave birth to a lot of children, creating a happy home. Of course, at the beginning of the marriage, the two people did not put this matter too seriously, but let everything happen naturally. They also do not forget to nurture their feelings by going on long trips or going on a date to eat at a restaurant. In terms of work, both husband and wife also develop and advance day by day.
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However, after the first 2 years of marriage, P. has never received good news. In the 3rd year, she began to appear worried. P. discussed with her husband about going to the hospital for a health check, because his parents-in-law as well as his biological parents urged him many times. But P.’s husband does not agree, he thinks that medical examination is time consuming, expensive, anyway the couple is still young, there is no need to rush.
In the house, P. respects her husband’s opinion very much, even sometimes she is shy in front of him, so she does not dare to argue. So time still goes on, the good news is still not there and the couple does not know where the problem lies.
For four years, the couple’s feelings for each day now gradually become lost. They still carry on their normal activities, it’s just that the atmosphere is a dull, lonely atmosphere. In particular, P.’s biological parents also forced their daughter “I definitely have to go to the doctor with my husband, and think about it later!”
And then one day, P. discovered the paper in the drawer. She was completely shocked because it was the result of her husband being infertile. He never told her about this. According to the time written on it, it can be seen that P.’s husband has been going to the doctor for a long time. He should have discussed it with his wife, too. The woman feels like everything is against her, she falls into a state of despair, helplessness…
A choking saying that ends suffering and makes smart behavior
After holding that piece of paper, P. really wanted to ask her husband why he kept such an important matter a secret. The other party was also extremely shocked when questioned. He admitted that he was under pressure from his family, especially his wife’s parents. Her parents-in-law are fine because at least P.’s husband has two older brothers. However, P.’s husband is afraid that he will disappoint his wife’s parents, thereby influencing P. to leave her husband. He did not want this marriage to fall apart just because he had no children.
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Hearing this, P. was silent and understood everything. She said a choking sentence: “It’s okay if we don’t have children, I will adopt children later, as long as we can still be together and love each other.”
The couple also quickly informed their grandparents with an affirmation that they would not give up the marriage. Fortunately, both sides are very understanding, and it is important that both husband and wife dare to speak the truth to give everyone peace of mind. That’s it, this story is an extremely valuable lesson for many women when they are in a similar situation. Be honest, don’t hide so that the conflict will get bigger and bigger. Facing instead of avoiding, that is the best solution.
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