Punishment of adulterers is as difficult as picking stars in the sky

On the table, were photos of his brother-in-law at the motel room of a woman, considered to be his mistress. There is a photo of him cooking, a photo of them sitting together to eat, singing karaoke and a love hug… There is also a clip recording the scene where the brother-in-lawang shaved the wind for the woman.

In fact, the story of brother-in-law having an affair, living with K. – that woman’s name for a long time, my family name is unknown to anyone. My sister is very sad. But the truth is that both you and I don’t want a divorce. She loves her children, he is greedy and doesn’t want to lose what he has.

The story of my brother-in-law living with his mistress, the whole family knows (Artwork)

In the two years her husband lived with K., my sister had a total of four times to… beat her with jealousy, mainly swearing at her husband’s mistress. One side booed “the husband snatched the husband”, the other side, “the husband criticized, the husband abandoned”; while his brother-in-law – the character who should have been a criminal, went to the inn to drink coffee.

Busy doing business, my sister does not care about jealousy. Those were just the times when she couldn’t stand the provocation of her mistress. She went on Facebook to show off that her brother-in-law gave her gifts, promised to take her out, cook delicious food… Sometimes she taunts: “Happiness always falls on people who know how to cherish happiness. Have mercy on those who do not know how to appreciate and cherish God-given gifts.

The last time my sister went to get jealous was last December. The two women quarreled loudly in the whole neighborhood, pots and pans placed on the porch of the neighbor’s house flew diagonally to each other. Someone called the ward police to handle it. Each person holds a warning note for the act of disturbing public order.

Returning from the police station, K. enjoyed a hearty meal because his brother-in-law showed off his talent to… make up for it (and showed it off on Facebook). Two hours after K.’s show off, his brother-in-law returned home with his wife and children with the same roast duck dish that my sister liked very much.

The roast duck didn’t cool my sister down. The next day, she went to the police station to accuse her husband of having an affair with K. Her evidence is the above photos and the affirmation that “everyone knows they have been living together for several years”. The reception officer asserted that the evidence she provided was not convincing enough to sanction the crime of violating the marriage regime against her brother-in-law and his mistress.

My sister was so angry and challenged: “As an area manager, you should know more than anyone that they live together!”.

The official said slowly: “In theory, her husband still has a household registration certificate and permanently resides in her house. He did not register for temporary residence at Ms. K’s house. Regarding love, we also cannot and do not have the duty to “catch” her husband who is having an affair with other people.

According to this official, there were several times when he went to check the population in the area, he saw twice my brother-in-law at K.’s house, he suggested that if he lived regularly, he had to register for temporary residence to facilitate the management of the population. reside. However, both K. and my brother-in-law insisted they were just friends and he went to K.’s room to visit and help when K. lived alone and was sick.

So the coexistence of the brother-in-law with his mistress, through the photos my sister asked many people living nearby… to take a sneak peek; actually just living together as… friends, not living together as husband and wife. (Ironically, the people who helped my sister record the image of brother-in-law living at K.’s house, were very upset about K. brazenly knowing my brother-in-law, but they refused to testify in front of the police or in court. understand because no one wants to be involved in things like this).

Many pictures and clips of the brother-in-law and K. hugging, still cannot be evidence that they violate the monogamous marriage regime (photo: illustration)

The law clearly stipulates the sanction of administrative violations, even criminal handling in case a person is married or is married but marries or lives as husband and wife with another person. Accordingly, in Clause 1, Article 59 of Decree 82/2020/ND-CP stipulating that violations of regulations on marriage and divorce and violations of the monogamous marriage regime are fines of 3,000 .000 – 5,000,000 VND for one of the following acts: being married or married and marrying another person, unmarried or unmarried but marrying someone with whom he or she knows he is married or are married; are married or are married but live as husband and wife with another person…

Article 182 of the 2015 Penal Code also provides for violations of the monogamous marriage regime. Specifically, a person who is married or has a husband but marries or lives as husband and wife with another person, or a person who is unmarried or unmarried but marries or lives as husband and wife with someone he knows well A husband or wife whose wife falls into one of the following circumstances shall be subject to warning, non-custodial reform for up to one year or a prison term of between three months and one year in case the marriage relationship of one or two persons is impaired. the party leading to the divorce; has been administratively sanctioned for this act but still violates it.

That’s the law. But to determine whether a person commits adultery (videos, images recording the scene of “boys above girls” or police records on this behavior) or living with other people as husband and wife is … difficult as ascend to heaven, as is the case with husband and wife.

In fact, there have been many trials for the crime of violating the marriage regime, but the evidence is always weak and unconvincing. Although in real life, it is not difficult to detect and believe that the other brother/sister has betrayed his/her spouse or that the other is a “small tam”, he is a “pilot” of a wife. bored husband.

What I – a single girl – still can’t understand, when the marriage relationship has appeared with other people, suffering is like that, many people still “try to eat sticky rice”, hold on and keep their hair. The family was dilapidated!

My sister often used the excuse that her children would be unhappy if her parents divorced. But would they be less unhappy living in such a home environment?

According to www.phunuonline.com.vn