Arguing with my girlfriend about buying a cell phone 10 million dong
I am 25 years old, my girlfriend is more than six years old, have been together for three years, intending to get married next year.
She is my first love, always caring, gentle and very mature. He also taught me many things in life and work. When we started studying, we realized the difference was quite big, he was an adult, I was still a child.
I’ve only worked for two years, my current income is around 15 million VND. Your income is double mine. My income is still precarious, so I only have enough to spend, no surplus. When the job was profitable, my salary increased gradually, he showed me how to save and invest little by little and now I have almost 50 million dong in savings. This year, my parents built a house, it is hoped that when it is finished, they will owe about 500 million VND.
I intend to donate 100 million dong for my parents, if the job is stable, I am not sick or sick, I will have enough in the next six months. His unmarried older sister also donated 100 million dong. Old people in the countryside worked in the fields, selling small groceries, enough to eat. After me, I also have a younger brother who is in his sophomore year of college, especially my younger sister who takes care of me, sometimes I help him pay the tuition fees a little. I study online in my hometown, so I can save money on accommodation.
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I don’t know for sure how much my parents owe me after finishing the house, but I will help until I pay off the debt. I also told my girlfriend, she supports this matter. He also agreed to help me financially when my parents were old. He no longer has parents.
One day I told him about my intention to buy an old cell phone for around 10 million dong. I used the affordable phone he gave me for over a year, or it just froze and took bad pictures. He said I shouldn’t buy an expensive phone, better buy the five, seven million dong, which is also very good. My salary is still low, I can’t use expensive cellphones. When he said that, I was so angry, he must have thought I couldn’t buy a 10 million dong cell phone. I owe nothing to anyone other than trying to save up for my parents to build a house. Don’t buy a cellphone now, but I plan to buy it at the end of the year, I have to give the money to my parents first, and after I use it, I will use it for a long time, so I have thoughts of buying a good phone, a little.
He says I have no personal financial plan, I will have kids next year, and have to rent house in city. He told me to focus on the important things in life rather than the colorful and cheesy things, like taking care of the family, exercising, and exercising. I’m lazy again, I can never practice three sessions. He often bought me books, encouraging me to read to open my mind. I know what you mean is very good, but I have never dared to buy something for myself that was too expensive because of the low salary. He criticized me for being childish and told me to think twice before getting married because if two people have different financial and money perspectives, married life is very troublesome. To get married, you have to prepare a lot of things, including stable finances. Indeed, if I get married right away, I’m not ready, not ready, I’m sure I have to wait another two years.
Love for three years, I know you don’t people trapped slag Because before leaving, he always pays, sometimes I’ll pay for the weird stuff. On holidays and memories, he always sends me wishes and buys gifts. He always said that if something didn’t make sense, he wouldn’t spend a dime. Yesterday I asked him directly, do you dare to spend money to buy me a new phone? He was very angry, said that for more than three years of love, I did not feel anything about him, closed my eyes to love or why ask such a thing.
You and I are stressed about this, no one will admit to being wrong. He said I had to post here to get everyone’s opinion. Should I buy an expensive phone while helping my parents? Thank you all for listening.
River
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