It’s wrong to find a way to keep your ex-husband

My husband and I were divorced for five years. Before the divorce, I also experienced prolonged conflicts with my husband’s family, depression after giving birth to my first child because my husband was indifferent. Unlike the author, I had a new person when I separated from my husband, which was also the end of her second marriage when my husband found out and the divorce procedure went very fast. At that time, I also took my son to meet new people, really wanted to build a marriage again, but he still loved his father very much. At night, I think, will my child be happy and content when I step out again? Those thoughts made me wary. I broke up with someone new, giving myself time for both of us to think together and make up for the flaws. I hope my family will one day be the same.

Two years after the divorce, her ex-husband had a new one. Previously, he still regularly visited his children. After the divorce, we no longer quarreled, we spoke more softly. I think he has changed, hoping to come back, but it’s all just my imagination. He became a completely different person, more caring, more sharing and thinking for others, but that was for his new person. At that time, I was quite miserable, I did everything to get him back. I searched for all the information about his new person, did everything to make him angry and break up. Whenever he takes his daughter out I make excuses to follow him so he can feel about his old family, I need him. I love it when I see them fighting, sometimes losing self-respect, being a troublemaker in his eyes, which brings us further apart. He is getting colder to me, less time to visit my children because I am afraid to meet face to face, I make my children suffer.

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Since then, I haven’t heard anything about her love story with a new person. Even his personal story, my sister’s work is not shared. We only greet him politely when he comes to visit or talk about it, nothing else. Two years later, I was told by friends that he was getting married, his wife was a lover that year. I realized that everything I did was stupid, and those two years were just me struggling to think and ask enough questions like a writer. I advise the author honestly, do not waste time in vain, instead take care of your children, take care of yourself, find other pleasures. Over the past year, after accepting to let go of my thoughts and actions, I have found myself happier, more positive and confident in a new life starting. Please take my lessons for self-study, my friends. Love!

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