Finished ‘the story’, the sisters were upset and upset, the husband rolled out to ‘pull the wood’

Mar 25, 2022 07:26 GMT+7

The sex story of Ms. Thu Hang (35 years old, Hanoi) is not satisfactory. Every time the ‘sex’ is over, her husband falls asleep, ignoring her restless sleep.

Ms. Hang said that in 12 years, she has almost never had an orgasm. Her husband is not ‘weak’, each love affair lasts 10-20 minutes but she still does not feel the pleasure from ‘love’.

After each love, only 5 minutes later, she saw her husband “pull the wood”, and she toss and turn, unable to sleep. Sometimes, I just want to kick my husband to wake up to relieve the anger.

According to Dr. Phan Chi Thanh – Chief of Office, Line Directing Center, National Hospital of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Thu Hang’s story is quite common, doctors see it every day.

Dr. Thanh said that women’s orgasm is not as obvious as men’s. In men, climax is very obvious through ejaculation.

Women do not have prominent organs like men, when they are sexually active, they only see the person’s erection, the chest is tight, especially the secretion of more lubricant, but there is no obvious expression like men.

Many women wonder if they have reached the top, women themselves wonder and men do not know that their partner has ‘top’ or not. Some women can cry out, ah… through the sound, but there are also people who don’t say anything. The body is slippery, so it is difficult for you to know if you have “supported” your partner to ‘climax’ yet.

Many people think that men and women climax differently, but in reality, both are the same. When you’re done, you have a feeling that spreads to the brain, dilates blood vessels, makes the penis soften, blood from the genitals drains to release the feeling of tension.

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For example, many men complain that they can’t get an erection, but actually having an erection without ejaculating also causes discomfort for them because the genitals do not rest and the blood cannot spread. Same with sisters.

During sexual arousal can help women run roda push the blood volume to climax. If you have sex to achieve orgasm first, then you have not reached the climax, the amount of blood remains in the genitals. At that time, you will be like brothers who cannot ejaculate. Their emotions are uneasy, uncomfortable, the blood is difficult to drain and it takes 1-2 hours to be released.

There are sisters who are uncomfortable after making love and the husband has fallen asleep. There are women who complain that after sex, they just want to kick their husbands once, but the husband doesn’t understand the idea of ​​just sleeping.

That’s why many women find it interesting, but uncomfortable, so they don’t enjoy it and feel like they’re doing it to serve their husbands.

To achieve orgasm, Dr. Thanh said that a woman has two signal-receiving stations, the genital organs, sensitive skin areas such as earlobes, breasts, etc., and data processing is the brain’s processing. set.

When it is difficult for women to reach the top, it may be because the signal receiving station area is affected, the skin may have paresthesias, stretch marks, cellulite, etc., if the stimulation is reduced, the nerve perception will be reduced. Women who have surgery in the pelvic area such as perineal scars and bad scars also reduce their ability to feel.

When the stimulus is felt but the body is drained, spinal pain, degeneration, microvascular damage, the stimulus signal is more difficult to transfer to the brain. However, this often happens in women who are old, according to the aging time of the body.

And in young women, the main cause of orgasm disorders is due to insufficient stimulation, not in the right place, so women have not reached orgasm.

Dr. Thanh said the vaginal canal is only 10 cm, but it has many different orgasmic positions. The outside of the vagina is designed with strong strokes, and the vaginal canal is designed for pressure, strong.

Unlike men, women can climax many times and these times alternate. If you are being stimulated to stop, you will fall back to more.

Therefore, Doctor Thanh thinks that when the husband reaches the top, he should also try to help the sisters ‘to the top’ more instead of finishing the work and then sleeping.

Khanh Chi