Parents suffer when they know their child is a victim
Being solicited, harassed, sexually assaulted while still a student is always a terrifying obsession. As recently, a group of students who have been studying at Nguyen Thien Thanh High School for the Gifted (Tra Vinh City) have in turn denounced the excessive behavior of a teacher in the school – Mr. T. (leader of the Van group) ).
Evolution of the case that teacher T. was accused of sexually abusing dozens of male students
– February 22the story went viral when a TT account posted the article “I was sexually assaulted by a high school teacher”. The post quickly received more than 1,300 comments and more than 1,500 shares
After that, a fanpage named “Suspicion of student abuse at Nguyen Thien Thanh High School” was also created with thousands of followers along with posts denouncing Mr. T. (Teacher of Literature) and school.
The post “I was sexually assaulted by a high school teacher” started the story of accusing Mr. T. of sexual harassment
Fanpage was created with thousands of followers, a lot of information about suspected sexual abuse was also shared
– February 25thMr. Nguyen Quoc Phong (Principal) sent someone to Mr. T’s house to verify the incident. However, this process was delayed for a few days because Mr. T was on a business trip and contracted Covid-19.
– March 7: Mr. T. denied all charges before the school.
– From 10/3 to 15/3: There are 8 denunciations from students who have been attending Nguyen Thien Thanh High School for the Gifted, Mr. T., sent to the authorities.
– March 23: Nguyen Thien Thanh High School for the Gifted confirmed to cooperate with the authorities to verify the information that the students denounced Mr. T. The Department of Education and Training of Tra Vinh province also confirmed to investigate the above incident. The school also sent 3 reports to the Department.
– March 24: Tra Vinh Provincial Police worked with the first victim/witness.
During that time, Mr. T. locked his personal page and sent a denunciation to the police to clarify information affecting his reputation and honor.
Dozens of male students spoke up: The teacher led him into a private room, locked the door, and began to “behave”!
You Jar (name changed) is a former male student of the English major class. He claimed to be one of the victims of Mr. T. Although he was not directly in charge of the class or homeroom, because Mr. T was the leader of the Literature group, he had a great influence on his fellow Literature classmates.
Friend Binh recalls: “When I went to tutoring, I noticed that Mr. T. had out-of-bounds behaviors towards his students. For example, calling me home after extra class. This made me very uncomfortable because professionals are inherently professional. I’ve been busy, I’m studying for a university exam, so I’m very stressed.T.T. often calls me to his house once a week to ‘work part-time'”.
Binh said that at Mr. T’s house, there is a living room, inside there is a bedroom. “There were times when he called me into his room and touched and touched my body. These actions were beyond the role of a teacher. Then he even asked me to give him a massage, using words from arousing love. sex.
There was a time when I resisted and strained, then the teacher calmed down and let me go home. After that time, I told the adults but no one believed me. Many people think that such touching actions are normal, simply that the teacher ‘cuddles’ the student.
But I frankly told my family that it was very uncomfortable, so I asked my father to go to teacher T’s house for 2 weeks. From then on, he also reduced the actions of calling me through class and cuddling like before. “
Another male student named Dig (changed name) admitted that he had to change schools after being bullied by Mr. T. but had exceeded the allowed limit. Just like many other times, Dao said that Mr. T also often invited me to do “private work”.
Dao recalls: “Teacher often called me over to the tutor’s place, sat there to help him with his work. Once he took and kept my phone for a few days. Later, he called me over to the house, only me. and the teacher in it, he asked me to come into the room, lock the door, sit next to me and watch the teacher prepare the lesson plan.
After preparing, the teacher pulled his head into his lap, touched his face, back, and hands and asked: ‘Do you love me?’. After a while, the teacher asked me to take photos and since then, I have avoided him. I guess because I had a lover at that time, he didn’t do anything too extreme anymore.”.
Parents when they know their child is a victim: Ever dared not speak out because of fear
Ms. Lan (changed her name, lives in Tra Vinh City), is the parent of N. (grade 12 is currently studying at Nguyen Thien Thanh High School for the Gifted).
Ms. Lan said that N. after going to school, the teacher gradually became afraid, sad, and didn’t want to go to school. Only when her mother insisted forever, did N. really answer the story.
“He said that the teacher told him to come in to his room to ask for a little talk, then he groped, groped, picked him up and shook him back and forth, except for the fact that he was lying on top of him, at first my son hid it behind him. just recounted.
He was afraid that the teacher would not dare to resist, and when he returned home, he stopped eating and drinking, dazed. After listening to my son, I was devastated, I watched on the radio and in the newspaper and saw that such things were very painful, who would have thought it would happen to my child.
I heard him say that he bolted the door and pulled up the boy’s pants, then he went out to look and then came back in. He was too stupid, I was too angry to tell him why he didn’t run out, he said he was scared and didn’t dare to do anything. I don’t know if he’s hiding anything anymore, when he heard the part where he was crushed, he felt weak.” Lan said.
Some other parents also said that they did not dare to speak up and denounce because they were worried about their children’s learning, while the students were silent for fear that Mr. T would affect their studies.
However, after the teacher posted a post about the victim TT, many students decided not to be silent anymore because they did not want this incident to continue. Many people (both parents and students) have written complaints against Mr. T. to the police.
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