Entering her boyfriend’s motel room, the woman was shocked by the foreign object
Accept the fact that, when you love someone, you can only love some aspects of them. No one is perfect, there will often be dark sides and corners of one person and cause obstacles for the other. It is important to consider whether you can live with and accept the bad side of the other person. Before stepping forward marriage, the two sides also need to share more about their lifestyle to avoid “90 minutes” to discover that they are not compatible. The story of M. below is an example.
Entering her boyfriend’s motel room, the woman was shocked by a “foreign object”
M. is a woman Careful, want everything to be perfect. She has known her boyfriend for almost 2 years, also because he always appears in front of M. very seriously and properly. She believes that the maturity she sees in him is a solid foundation for a lasting relationship. Because the work is also busy, the couple can’t see each other many times, even going out for a month or two. They often choose a restaurant or rent a homestay to have fun and enjoy a happy moment.
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2 years of love, M. has never been to his boyfriend’s motel room, but he has already gone to M.’s house and met his parents. The reason why she did not dare to go to the other room was because she was afraid. Besides, M. is also very delicate in “sex”, if two people have “needs” to solve, they will rent rooms in hotels and motels outside.
Having been together for a period of 2 years, M. thinks he will become her future husband. Their plan is to wait until the right time to introduce the two families to discuss the big deal.
One day, M. was very bold and proactively suggested going to her boyfriend’s motel room. However, when she entered his inn, many disappointments suddenly piled up. Normally going out with M., he is neatly dressed, polite, well groomed. However, M.’s boyfriend’s motel room looks very… unhygienic and even quite shabby.
In particular, M. also noticed that his boyfriend’s bed sheet was covered with very “strange” stains. It’s like he rarely does laundry and cleans. Immediately, M. spoke frankly, criticizing her boyfriend about this sloppy lifestyle. The two of them had a heated argument. The more the boyfriend explains, the more M. “exposes” him. And surprisingly, just for this reason, their love relationship ended after 2 years. M. believes he has made a wise choice.
The red alarms in men that women should not ignore
He has a messy lifestyle
No matter how he looks on the outside, you should still evaluate their lifestyle. A neat and tidy person will always strive to build such a clean common home. On the contrary, when you live with a man with an unscientific lifestyle, it is easy for both sides to argue. And then even, you will be the one who has to do the housework from a to z.
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He only knows how to “beautify” the outside
It is true that when we go out, we need to take care of our hair, clothes, and walking. But if you only know how to be beautiful in this aspect, it is not good. As mentioned, in addition to a neat and orderly lifestyle, a man should also cultivate his thinking and build up his content to become more and more comprehensive. Women should also not judge them lightly, otherwise you will be shocked to discover his “hidden corners”.
A conservative man who thinks his lifestyle is right
In the above story, M.’s boyfriend insists that he is used to living like this and does not need to be repaired. Despite the advice of his lover, he did not change. Do not accept sticking with this type of conservative. Everything you do is well-meaning, but in their eyes it’s annoying. In the long run, it is very difficult for two people to stick together.
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