A year ago my brother insisted on taking his wife and children out to live separately, causing a stir in the family. By then, they had been married for 3 years, and her sister-in-law had just given birth to a child almost a year ago.
He was an only child, his parents were old, and he lived apart like that. Who takes care of the elderly in the morning? Then people looked back and said that my family had a problem, so the children couldn’t live with their parents. But my sister was determined not to change her mind. She said that living with my mother and sister-in-law often had conflicts, life was too stressful, she was suffocating and couldn’t stand it.
Objectively, my mother is also very difficult. She always asks her daughter-in-law to be perfect, earn money but still take care of everything at home. She pays attention to every little part of her sister, from the way she dresses, walks, talks, gestures, to the way she teaches children and socializes. Whenever he didn’t like it, he gave a stern rebuke.
Objectively, my mother is also very difficult. (Illustration)
But think again and again, my mother just wanted to be good to her, to help her improve herself. When she becomes perfect, she will be loved by her husband, respected and admired by others. But her brother-in-law and sister only saw the negative side, thinking that she was deliberately suppressing and judging her daughter-in-law.
Then I didn’t understand how my sister-in-law was thinking, but when I gave birth, I was still depressed, had to go to the hospital for a checkup and treatment for a while. It was also the reason why my brother insisted on bringing his wife and children to live alone, always protecting his wife, ignoring the sorrows of his parents.
So, he had already lived apart for half a year. Their accommodation is also nearby, so my mother often goes there to check how the brothers are doing, whether the in-laws are taking care of everything or neglecting her responsibilities.
My mother even had my sister give her the key so she could go in and out as she pleased. It seems that my sister-in-law is not very happy, but my mother gave me permission to live alone, so she kept quiet.
Yesterday, my mother went to work out, so she stopped by my brother’s house. By then, it was past dinner time, but the kitchen of the brother-in-law’s house was cold, and there was no rice or water. Mother yells at her why she hasn’t cooked for her husband, when her brother comes back from outside with boxes of ready-to-eat meals.
As a wife, her husband hasn’t eaten by 8 or 9 pm, and forcing her to buy ready-made food in a restaurant is, in her mother’s eyes, a big mistake. He pointed directly at her face and scolded her.
“I am sick, I have to work all afternoon, I don’t come home late at night, why do I still have energy to eat and drink? I am a wife, not a servant, but I always think about cooking for my husband?” This time, brother-in-law couldn’t hold himself back anymore, but loudly and grumbled.
My mother was bedridden for a whole week, suffering for her unfilial son. (Illustration)
He was so angry that he suddenly ran away, declaring that from now on, he would not face his brother-in-law and would no longer recognize him as the daughter-in-law in the family. At that time, my brother suddenly spoke up, thinking that he would apologize and relieve, but no, the 5 words he spoke directly, made him unable to imagine. “This is the best!”I say.
“For the past half year, even though we lived apart, we had no privacy. My wife still has to endure all kinds of grief, I look at her and hate her. But it was she who advised her husband and told him to restrain himself because his parents were old. But at this point, I can’t try anymore. Parents did not accept her as a daughter-in-law, but she was still a wife and children. Mom, don’t come here to see her again, if there is anything, I will take you home alone, it is best for the two of you to avoid each other.”
Was there a boy in the world who said such words to his mother because of his wife’s defense? My mother was bedridden for a whole week, suffering for her unfilial son. I love my mom so much, should I go and force her to get back on her knees and apologize to her?
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