Wife lost 3 billion dong online

I am the youngest child of a large family. Wife is intelligent, talented, loves her family very much, lives in harmony, is friendly with her parents and siblings. Five years ago, my parents transferred me a plot of land worth almost 2.5 billion VND. After I got married, I built a house with 1.2 billion dong, which my biological parents supported 800 million dong, the wedding money for my husband and I 200 million dong, and the rest borrowed 200 million dong from my sister without interest. My monthly income is about 15 million VND and my wife is about 10 million VND.

Three months ago, his wife admitted to gambling online and owed 400 million dong. My wife was crying, begging for forgiveness, hoping for a chance to do it again and vowing never to touch gambling. Since I loved my wife and thought it was the first offense, I let her go, and also explained to my wife: “In my family, I hate two things the most, one is adultery and the other is gambling. do one of the two, you will die . Let’s go. I only forgive you this time, if there is a second time, don’t blame me for being cruel.” I borrowed 400 million dong from the bank to pay my wife’s debt and promised not to make any big trouble out of her. My mistake was forgiving my wife too easily and trusting her, letting this situation end.

Three days ago, my cousin called: “Yesterday my wife borrowed 500 million dong from me to pay the bank, I only have 200 million dong, if you need it, let me transfer it”. I was too shocked, turned to ask my wife, she was crying and begging for forgiveness. My wife is pregnant, so I dare not raise my voice, just take her to my grandmother’s house so I can calm down. After forcing his wife to declare all debts, the amount reached 1.2 billion VND. I was so stuck, I told the truth to the brothers and sisters to make the best decision. My brothers and sisters want to help me settle these debts (they are economically better off than my wife and I) because most of them are usurious loans, which must be settled immediately before the interest on the mother’s child.

If my father knew that he would never accept a gambling daughter-in-law, it would be difficult for his wife to live with my family in the future. After we agreed on a repayment plan, we wanted to find out more if the wife was honest by checking the transaction in the online gambling account and printing the wife’s bank statement for verification. I discovered that my wife’s gambling loss was not 1.2 billion dong, but 3 billion dong.

Even more terrifying was that just an hour after crying and begging for my forgiveness for the first time, my wife continued to send 200 million VND. After I borrowed money from the bank, transferred money to my wife to pay the 400 million dong debt, my wife also spent all her money on gambling. When my wife was at my grandmother’s house to calm me down, I beat another 200 million dong and lost everything. This total debt of 3 billion VND was borrowed from my wife’s sister, my sister, friends, business partners and usury. I was very disappointed and completely lost faith in my wife. When my wife was pregnant, I did not let her touch anything, my mother’s food and drink was cooked and brought. You are loved by my whole family, why did you lie to me like that?

I decided to have a family gathering. My father advised me to get a divorce, thinking that gambling addiction was impossible to stop, it would only help pay off the loan his wife borrowed from his sister about 650 million VND (sister also borrowed red books from other people to borrow and hot to lend). The wife’s family had a really hard time, after finding out the whole family tried to sell the pigs and chickens, they only got 20 million VND. If I didn’t get divorced, my father was worried that I would borrow from the gangsters to gamble, and at that time, it would involve my whole family. No matter how I decide, my parents still respect it, so in my life, my parents don’t interfere too much. Brothers and sisters don’t want us to divorce, just separate, wait for the time if the wife changes, then forgive. Divorce is now very unethical, husband and wife have to stay together in times of adversity and hardship. You are willing to take part in usury loans to reduce our debt burden.

Honestly, I really wanted to give my wife a chance to rebuild my life and also think about my unborn son. If I don’t get divorced, later, if my wife continues to be involved in black society, it will affect my parents, I will regret it for the rest of my life. What do I have to do? Hope people give me advice.

King

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