I’m having an affair, but is it too much for my wife to do this ‘beating’ thing?

Mar 28, 2022 07:49 GMT+7

I got married at the age of 30, I am also the sales manager of a company. I still remember when I showed off my girlfriend, knowing a little about her, my mother was annoyed and dissatisfied.

The reason my mother gave was because Hoa – my wife is now just an ordinary employee, with a salary of more than ten million, her family in a small town is not well off.

Meanwhile, I’m both handsome and have a good job, although I don’t earn too much money, my family is well-educated, disciplined, and has good economic conditions. My mother thinks that I deserve to find a more beautiful and capable woman than Hoa.

But basically Hoa is a good girl, very well behaved, so it is difficult for my mother to retort much. If she treated her too harshly, she would invisibly embarrass herself.

So after 2 years of knowing each other, we decided to get married. Our life is also quite peaceful when we both have stable jobs and are helped by our parents, so we can quickly buy a house and a car.

But it is true that people say that if you are idle, you will have a shallow life. When I was not under economic pressure, I was born to drink, play with the kids at the company and since then fell in love with the apprentice.

I am the main guide for her, so every day we chat together, sometimes she just buys me a cup of coffee is enough to make my heart flutter.

I suddenly realized that my marriage has been so boring for a long time, as husband and wife, but we are no longer in the habit of talking to each other about everything, and we are no longer picking up each other every afternoon like before.

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Both my wife and I have other concerns. I’ve found that drinking with friends is more fun than eating with my wife, and she enjoys shopping with coworkers more than going with me…

Just like that, I fell in love with the apprentice employee. Her house is about 5km from mine, convenient to go to the company, so I stop by to pick her up every morning to go to work with her.

We worked on projects together, the results were beyond expectations, it’s been a long time since I’ve seen someone so suitable for me.

I wrapped tangerines with my lover for only 4 months, when the matter broke. Although I hid it very carefully, when I went to the shopping center with my lover, my wife discovered it.

My wife just said that she really didn’t understand why I had a good wife who was still hanging out with young girls.

When she left, I knew she was devastated when she saw all of this. But the strangest thing is that the next day I proved to be the one at fault, apologized to my wife and asked for her forgiveness, but she remained silent and didn’t say a word.

Honestly, I’m happy with my young lover, but in my heart, I never thought I would trade off my family, leave my wife and children.

Last weekend, my wife asked me to arrange a time with her to go to my hometown to visit my parents. My wife is a worker but never speaks, so I was worried that day.

Unexpectedly, when she returned to her hometown, she asked my parents to invite all her aunts and uncles to eat, she spent about 5 trays of rice.

Then she announced to return me to my parents to the surprise of many people. I know it’s wrong for me to have an affair, but is it necessary for my wife to put so much pressure on it?

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