My best friend’s husband is having an affair, but she’s mad at me

I started working with my boss in a large company about 6 years ago, I also quite understand the boss and get along well with him at work. I know some of my boss’s private secrets, but I absolutely respect the privacy of others, so I never said it, only knew there was work, and work. So my boss also respects me and favors me at work.

I will still respect my principles and have no problem not being introduced to my boss’s wife and becoming her best friend.

I like the boss’s wife in that even though her husband is loud, she is very modest, simple, not fussy or “chic” like many other ladies. She is friendly and knows how to care for people, does not want to owe anyone anything, does not want to take advantage of anyone, always finds a delicate way to repay the kindness of others.

We’re so close that we can go shopping together, have lunch together, or meet up for coffee at the weekend when I’m not working. Like other close girlfriends, we also confide many secrets with each other. But because of that, I feel very apologetic because there are some secret things unrelated to me but related to her that I can’t talk about.

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I know that the boss is having an affair with another woman in the company. It was an office secret, and also the source of many whispers and gossip.

If in the past I was fine, still choosing to live “don’t know, don’t care, don’t care”, but now I feel stressed when I keep it a secret from my best friend, that is, my boss’s wife. . She also told me a few times about her insecurities when we went to coffee together, but I brushed it off to reassure you without telling the truth.

I once went to see my boss privately to explain that I felt very uncomfortable and awkward about his boss, I asked him what he thought I should do in my position now. The boss just said that he understood that he had put me in a difficult position and insisted that he would settle this matter well.

I don’t understand how the boss arranges, or has not been able to arrange anything, suddenly the boss’s wife knows about it, suddenly comes to the company, meets the boss’s girlfriend, makes a fuss and releases all the evidence. I don’t know who at the agency told her, and she silently gathered evidence husband of adultery.

What bothers me the most is that my best friend gets mad at me, saying that this friendship is over from now on because I covered her husband to do bad things, knew it without telling her, and lied to her. the matter is nothing.

It is true that I am feeling very guilty for not telling my boss’s wife, but I have my own grief. I still think I did the right thing to talk to my boss directly first, but when I was scolded by my boss’s wife and cut off our friendship, I no longer understood what to do.

I don’t want to be the one who burned other people’s houses, but being put in this situation, whether I say it or not to my boss’s wife, I still have a reputation for burning down my boss’s house.

Now what should I do to solve my situation, what should I do to not lose you because of this unjust cause? My boss from the day he was jealous of his wife until now is also lost when he comes to the company, so I don’t expect anything to be cleared by the boss.

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