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Rare: 7 men agree to be the father of 1 child, the confused mother admits the unbelievable story

At the meeting, besides Mr. Tien and Mr. Khoa, it is not clear where 5 other men also came to the police headquarters to confirm that they were the baby’s father.

During many years in the profession, lawyer, Dr. Nguyen Hong Thai, Hong Thai International Law Firm and colleagues – Ho Chi Minh City Bar Association. Hanoi has provided legal support for many complicated child custody disputes.

Most clients come to him when they are divorced or divorced, but there are also rare cases where both husband and wife go to fight for custody of children with other men.

Divorce her husband only to know the true identity of the child

Not long ago, the office of Thai lawyer welcomed Lai Thu Huong and her husband (Hanoi). Ms. Huong said that when she was a student, she attended university and knew Mr. Nguyen Huy Hoang.

The two had a beautiful love in their youth. However, after graduating from school, they were forced to part because Mr. Hoang established a career in Hanoi, and Ms. Huong was asked by her parents to work in a state agency in the countryside 200km from Hanoi.

The two parted sadly. A few years later, Ms. Huong temporarily forgot her old image and built a family with a boy from the same hometown named Nguyen The Nam. “However, after the wedding, Ms. Huong learned that her husband was a drinker and gambler. Life with her husband broke her family’s death, making her extremely tired,” Thai lawyer recalls.

Two years after the wedding day, once she returned to Hanoi for a class meeting, how unlucky she was, she met the old man again. Mr. Hoang had not yet loved anyone. Meeting her old lover again, how much frustration and regret in her heart broke.

Speaking to Mr. Thai, Ms. Huong shyly said that, at that time, the two could not hold back their emotions and went beyond the limit. They didn’t know that the time that exceeded the limit made them both embark on a journey full of surprises.

Returning home, a short time later, Huong discovered she was pregnant. However, she always thought that the baby was Nam’s son. The baby was born a boy, so he was pampered by his father and grandparents.

However, because Mr. Nam still suffers from this disability, Ms. Huong decided to divorce her husband. She won custody of the children and soon became a match with Mr. Hoang. However, the two later had a conflict with Mr. Nam when he often took the child home and refused to return the baby.

“This guy even kept the baby in the house, not allowing him to see his mother. The execution of the sentence, the police, and the neighborhood group got involved, but from time to time, the father still did not cooperate and “held” the child. This is a situation that many fathers and mothers face after divorce, “said Mr. Thai.

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Huong won custody of the children, but always had trouble with her ex-husband (Artwork: Mombaby)

At this time, Huong suddenly realized the similarities between her son and Mr. Hoang. She took a hair sample of both of them for a DNA test and suddenly received the result that they both have the same bloodline. As it turned out, Mr. Hoang was really the child’s father. Knowing this news, Mr. Hoang was more than happy and determined to reclaim his biological child. He and his wife went to the law office of Nguyen Hong Thai.

Holding the DNA test results that Huong gave, Mr. Thai planned to reclaim the child for the couple.

According to Mr. Thai, at that time, they did not inform Mr. Nam immediately for fear that the family there would resent being deceived and harm the child. He spent the next year, using all kinds of psychotherapy, secretly asking the “speaker” to create suspicions that “maybe the child is not blood related to check their house”.

“Do this so that they gradually reduce their love to one level. When they know the truth, they are not too shocked. In the end, the two sides reached an agreement to compensate the ex-husband’s family 200 million dong and pick up their son,” Mr. Thai said. remember.

Trouble arose from her husband’s slap

Unlike Mr. Hoang, Mr. Do Van Tien (born in 1980, from Vinh Phuc) had a fight for children with 6 other men.

More than 5 years ago, Mr. Tien and his wife, Ms. Le Thi Thuy (SN 1984) asked a Thai lawyer to claim their children. Both said that their third child is being kept by Mr. Nguyen Van Khoa in Thanh Oai district (Hanoi) and is determined not to return it.

Just heard, lawyer Nguyen Hong Thai realized that this is a complicated case. When talking more deeply with this couple to find a solution, the Thai lawyer went from one surprise to another.

The couple told the lawyer that, once, due to a dispute, Mr. Tien could not hold back his anger and slapped his wife’s ear. Shocked by this action of her husband, Thuy rushed to Hanoi to find a job, leaving her husband and two young children.

In Hanoi, Ms. Thuy worked as a hired worker and happened to meet a married man with 2 daughters. This man rented a comfortable room for her and frequented, ate and slept with her.

Not only going back and forth with the married man, around this time, Thuy also “dated” with Mr. Nguyen Van Khoa from Thanh Oai. Mr. Khoa was suffering from cancer at that time, so Ms. Thuy was very sympathetic and often met and encouraged. Both therefore inevitably go over the limit.

“In his hometown, Mr. Tien repeatedly called to apologize and persuade Ms. Thuy to return. However, because she was being pampered by her lover, she escaped from the scene with her feet covered in mud, so Ms. Thuy was still angry. Sometimes, she takes advantage of going home for a few days and then comes back to Hanoi,” Thai lawyer said.

Before this situation, Mr. Tien only knew how to let his wife decide for herself because he was afraid that if he worked too hard, his wife would leave immediately but would not return.

Nearly a year later, when he heard the story of his wife going back and forth with another man, Mr. Tien retorted, Thuy did not hesitate to admit it. She even announced a “lightning” news that she was more than a month pregnant.

Although very angry, but thinking of his children, Tien still went to the water to advise her to return to her hometown. Mr. Tien said he would adopt the baby and raise three children with his sister. Seeing that her husband did not blame her, in her heart, Thuy felt very regretful. However, she still avoids him, stays in Hanoi to work as a hired worker, not until the day of giving birth.

After giving birth, Ms. Thuy plans to stay in her hometown to raise her children and settle down. However, when he heard that Thuy had given birth to a son, Mr. Khoa went to Thuy’s house to confirm that the baby was his. The story of Ms. Thuy going back and forth with another man was discovered by her husband’s family.

After a day of intense controversy, Mr. Tien finally agreed to let Khoa take Thuy’s mother and daughter back to Thanh Oai. “At that time, knowing that Mr. Khoa did not have much longer to live, Mr. Tien also agreed. He thought that his wife and third child would only go there for a few meals,” the lawyer recalled. husband’s confession.

As for Mr. Khoa’s family, seeing that his unmarried son was seriously ill, he suddenly brought back a handsome baby boy. His parents were as happy as if they had caught gold. His whole family held a big party to celebrate, convincing Thuy and Khoa to go and make a birth certificate for the child. Alone, again under pressure, Ms. Thuy reluctantly agreed.

After staying at Mr. Khoa’s house for a month, Ms. Thuy expressed her intention to return home. However, his family strongly objected and asked Thuy to leave the child if she wanted to go. Unfortunately, she had to leave her child behind and go back to her hometown to ask for help from her husband. Both decided to consult a lawyer.

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The mistress’s family refused to return the child, and Ms. Thuy was helpless to ask for help from her husband (Illustration: Mombaby)

When being consulted by a Thai lawyer, Thuy and her husband went to the police to report. Receiving the denunciation, the police invited Mr. Khoa to work. Here, this man gave the baby’s birth certificate and said that, because of Thuy’s consent, he took the baby away.

At this meeting, besides Mr. Tien and Mr. Khoa, it is not clear where 5 other men also came to the police headquarters to confirm that they were the baby’s father. Among those 5 people, there is a man with 2 daughters who rented a room for Ms. Thuy to live in, a few others are single and unmarried…

Witnessing that incident, the police officers and Mr. Thai felt extremely surprised and did not believe it was true. However, Ms. Thuy shyly admitted that she had slept with these 6 people, so she herself did not know who the child was. “The child could also be Mr. Tien’s child because even though she works far away from home, she still comes home from time to time”, Mr. Thai said.

Solve the problem

Seeing that the matter was too troublesome, Thai lawyer asked all 7 men to take a DNA test to determine who the baby’s father is. However, all 7 men fighting for children refused this request.

Khoa insists that he is the father of the baby because he has a birth certificate in his hand. The man with 2 daughters said that the child was definitely his because he was the first man to meet Thuy in Hanoi.

Finally, as a lawyer representing Ms. Thuy and her husband, Mr. Nguyen Hong Thai argued: Mr. Tien and Ms. Thuy are still in the marriage period. Therefore, Thuy is pregnant, no matter whose child it is, Mr. Tien is still the legal father of the baby.

It is against the law to take the child to register the birth and claim to be the child’s father. If Mr. Khoa does not return the child to Thuy and his wife, he may be prosecuted for child abduction. Finally, Mr. and Mrs. Tien and Ms. Thuy also picked up the baby.

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Lawyer Nguyen Hong Thai (Photo: Hong Anh)

About a week after the meeting, lawyer Nguyen Hong Thai heard that Ms. Thuy committed suicide by drinking insecticide and had to be transferred to Bach Mai Hospital for emergency care. “Perhaps because she was so stressed and tired after the dispute that she thought about it, fortunately the bad thing did not happen,” Thai said.

According to Mr. Thai, this incident has happened for a long time and is considered the rarest at his office. He was extremely impressed with Mr. Tien, a country man who was tolerant and loved his wife wholeheartedly. He is the most staunch opponent of DNA testing and determining who the child is, he will still take care of him wholeheartedly.

Lawyer Thai was also deeply impressed with Ms. Thuy – a woman with a normal appearance, sincere, not young but has a special attraction to many men.

“Each case is a family story with different lives. When advising couples, I always uphold the interests of the child. The unfortunate child falls into a dispute or the parents divorce. will have to face many disadvantages. Therefore, under possible conditions, both sides should calmly sit down together to find the best solution to compensate for their children, “said lawyer Thai.

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According to dantri.com.vn

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