‘Trick’ his wife 1001 times to refuse to give birth to a second child, netizens pointed out the reason why the husband fell back

Childbirth has always been an important issue in every family, before making a decision, it will need the consent of both husband and wife. However, the husband in this story is very helpless because his wife refuses to give birth to a second child.

The husband shared the family story on social networks as follows:

“Is there anyone like me and my wife? The fate of men today is 18 wharfs, not 12 wharfs like my sisters in the past. Is there a man who suffers like me, lacks water, puts his wife on his head, but tells him to continue giving birth, but looks at his wife’s face as if listening to the ghost story of Uncle Nguyen Ngoc Ngan.

We already have a 2 year old boy, my wife and I are also 30 and have a few numbers, so I want to have another baby for the older child to have friends, but every time my wife hears about having another baby, her face turns back. It’s like making her jump into a pan of boiling oil. But giving birth to my wife’s first child is 2.5 hours after the birth, since the water broke, my wife gave birth naturally.

Stay like a queen. Mother-in-law, husband, and rice soup are brought to the wife’s room until the baby is 2 months old to eat with the family, at 6 months, my wife has to go to the kitchen to cook. At night, my mother and I take turns holding the baby. harass.

After 3 months of birth, my wife returned to the same shape as when she was a girl, the clothes are still the same size as when she was a girl. In general, except when giving birth and being pregnant, it is tiring, my wife’s diaper instead of the baby is calculated on the finger, bathing the baby is my mother’s bath.

My wife has only one thing that no one else can do, which is to cook food for her children, she is very diligent in her children’s eating and has done everything by herself since the baby started eating solids until now.

Honestly, I see few mothers as happy as my wife, the right girl, one child, looks worn out. However, no matter how much he begged to have more children, his wife still shook. I also don’t understand why the wife insists that she will give birth again in 5-7 years…”.

After 2 years, the wife refused to give birth to the next child, the husband complained but received many criticisms.

The young father’s post is currently receiving nearly 6,000 likes and thousands of comments. This is a true story that probably many families are also facing. However, when carefully re-reading the husband’s confession, netizens quickly realized something unusual!

According to the sharing, when the wife gave birth to the first child, she was likened to “as happy as a queen”, the first 6 months the husband brought rice and poured water, after only 3 months, she returned to the same shape as when she was a girl, but when she gave birth, it only took right away. 2.5 hours from the time of rupture of membranes.

At the end of the story, he also confided another fear: “To be honest, I’m very worried these days when it comes to eating and drinking, the living environment is not the same as before, but secondary infertility is very sad.”

After reading the above article, many netizens expressed their sympathy and praised the guy for skillfully taking care of his wife in the early days of birth:

– If what you shared is true, this guy is really hard working, even his mother-in-law also shares and takes care of him.

– The wife probably wants to spend more time for the baby to grow stronger and more mature. But there is a psychological husband like this, why not have more children. But I’m also happy to comment, just discuss more about private husband and wife with your wife!

However, the story also attracted mixed opinions:

– You must let this husband bear the pain of giving birth. After 5 minutes of pain, I fainted, not to mention the pain for 2.5 hours.

– After reading it, I know that the husband’s family does not understand the daughter-in-law. After 3 months, she has returned to her shape, it proves that she was under a lot of stress to come back so quickly. Not to mention that I have to abstain from many things, my baby cries at night, my baby is healthy and chubby, unfortunately I am sick and skinny, but I say that breast milk is not good. Then 9 months and 10 days of heavy labor, who understands. Only 2 years, but have asked for another child, think about your wife’s health a bit!

– It is said that every time a mother gives birth, a mother enters the door of death. This is why more and more mothers fall into postpartum depression. Not able to recover, urged to give birth again. Is it boring enough to give birth, or run enough sales for the parents of both sides. How about work, wife’s promotion, think for yourself, but also think about your wife, brother.

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The story is a short confession from the husband, so it is difficult to judge who is right and who is wrong. However, most netizens believe that having children is an important matter that cannot be urged. When the economy is stable, the knowledge of parenting is sufficient, then have children.

Above all, the couple must understand each other’s sacrifices, should not use service and care to compare or be a reason to force each other, so that the family can have a complete happiness. .

Aries